NOTE: Links are listed in alphabetical order by name of the group, not city or specific location. For best results, look through the entire list, especially as group names often include abbreviations or other methods obscuring their placement. Signing up for update emails (via ChangeDetection.com link at bottom of each page) and/or reviewing the list regularly is recommended.
#1 California Literary Artists: Authors, Bloggers, Journalists, Poets, Wordsmiths, Wrimos, Writers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinky CA writers of both vanilla and the erotic gather to support each other in achieving their writing goal/s.
12 Step Kink+ Oakland Meeting, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
12 Step Meeting group. Welcoming of kink+ folk. AA, NA, ACA, etc. Open to all manner of 12 Step folk who have a desire to be in recovery, have a resentment and a pot of coffee.
15 Association, The, verified 2015-Mar-23
Social, sexual fraternity for gay men over 21, into S/M; oldest continuous gay male S/M club in the western US. Active in the community with charitable fund raising and educational events.
18-25 California youngins, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For the young to chat and get together.
209 Kinksters (California), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For any local kinksters in the area. Modesto, Turlock, Riverbank, Oakdale, Salida, Ripon, Escalon, Ceres and others.
35 and under in NorCal (and some Bay Area), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
NorCal’ers will have a place to congregate, and meet people close to us! Feel free to post any sort of discussion topics you like, even if it’s not kink related. Classifieds are welcomed, and encouraged.
408/669 Area Code, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinksters who live in or spend significant amounts of time in the 408 area code (including the new 669 “overlay”). Cities include San Jose, Santa Clara, Campbell, Sunnyvale, Milpitas and surrounding townships.
5th Wednesday Social and Munch Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
5th Wednesday Social, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Buena Park. Open to anyone who has been to the 5th Wednesday Social and Munch or anyone that wants to go.
805 kink & friendships!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Just a cool place to talk and hang out!
94th Aerosquadron San Diego – BDSM Social & Raffle!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
One of San Diego’s oldest running “Meet and Greet” Socials. Pan-sexual group, all yearning to find others in a safe, sane and consensual forum.
AB/DL’s In/near CA Sacramento., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those of us who live in Sacramento and love DIAPERS or acting like ADULT BABIES.
Academy For Sissies, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Downtown LA. Community outreach for sissies. Safe, accepting, loving, supportive, and fun environment to express and explore your inner sissy gurl.
The Accolade, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Mod Note: Previously a locality-based group (Silicon Valley FemDom/masculine sub Munch); unsure if it still is. For Dominant Ladies, “FemDoms,” Dommes, Mistresses and the worthy Knights who answer the call to serve those Ladies. The “energy” here is Feminine Dominant / masculine submissive.
Adam and Eve of Citrus Heights, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To keep fans and customers in the loop about everything.
“*Adoring subs and Female Dominants in S.F. Bay Area, CA”, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Virtual meeting ground in SF Bay Area for Dominant Females & subs of all genders. Occasional munches, gatherings, and meet ‘n greets at existing local events are coordinated. Social group as well as a place for classifieds.
Adult Community Camping Club ~ Southern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Outdoor enthusiastic members of the Leather/Kink/BDSM/Fetish communities along with our brothers and sisters from the Bears, Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, Gay Rodeo and many more
African American San Diego Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For African American kinksters living in Southern CA, San Diego area. Endeavoring to bring together the Black Community also in the BDSM Lifestyle. To meet and greet, network, educate and possibly enjoy play amongst POC.
AgePlay Adventures at the Citadel!!!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Recurring age play event. San Francisco.
Ageplay Davis – TNG (18-35), FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-17
For adults ages 18-35, and their partners, who are interested in ageplay, AB/DL, or related D/s dynamics (e.g. Daddy, Mommy, babygirl/boy, little girl/boy). Aim: To foster a welcoming environment for consenting like-minded adults to enlighten and educate one another.
Alameda County Leather Corps (ACLC), verified 2015-Mar-23
Alameda County Leather Corps, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Tax-exempt 501(c)(3) non-profit organization. Primarily composed of residents of San Francisco’s East Bay. Purpose: To promote educational and charitable activities through social interaction among people with interest in leather, Levis, uniforms, and latex.
Alameda Island Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Casual gathering of BDSM and kink friendly people chatting, relaxing, and having fun. Perfect place to begin breaking-out into the public scene and ask questions in a safe and reasonably sane, certainly perverted, environment.
All Bay Area. 420 patient’s group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Bay Area patients to discuss all things medical marijuana.
Alameda Island Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Casual gathering of BDSM and kink friendly people chatting, relaxing, and having fun.
ALOG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Alternative Lifestyle Outreach Group. Bakersfield. Holds local coffees to educate people about BDSM, what safe sane consensual means, and internet meeting safety.
Anaheim Black Doms and white subs/slaves, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Anaheim Locals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For promotion of any BDSM related activities such as Munches, Socials, Dungeon-sponsored play parties, discussion groups, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.
Anaheim Watersports Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Local watersports group.
Anonymous Encounters in Los Angeles, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-02
For those sexy individuals/cpl/groups who want to set up anonymous encounters. For one on one meetings or group.
Antelope Valley, CA Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Mainly for those who live in the Antelope Valley area such as Acton, Palmdale, Lancaster, Rosamond, and Mojave.
Apple Valley Ca Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
So local people can meet.
Arcata Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all Arcata residents, and friends, to discuss, share, and otherwise talk about their kinks.
Arcata kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Talk about anything, have fun, post info and get-togethers, enjoy yourself and meet others from in and around town.
Arcata TNG Humboldt, FetLife, verified 2015-Jul-05
Support, education and social group for young adults 18-35. Meetings, social events, play parties offer a relaxed atmosphere for people interested in all aspects of safe, sane and consensual BDSM play, increase their knowledge and skill levels, and explore the greater kink community.
Asylum Nights – Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= CLOSED =
Avatar Club, verified 2015-Mar-23
Los Angeles. Founded in 1983. Providing leadership in education, health and safety by facilitating strategic collaborations and developing outreach programs to allow individuals to explore alternative expressions of sexuality in a safe environment.
Axis of Sadistic Intent, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Sacramento based. Come, discuss all of those wonderful and twisted sadistic ideas you may have. New ideas on toys, equipment, and furniture are always welcome. Not restricted to Tops or bottoms, nor male or female.
BA (Bay Area) BDSM Matching, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23, SPAM
“BACK” Bay Area Chromatic Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For folks of color residing in the Bay Area who want to plan munches, events, play parties, and conventions, hold discussions, place personals and classifieds, and create a support network.
Back To Nature Parties, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Back To Nature Parties, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Very special group of people who get together monthly in Northern CA during the warm months of the year for outdoor play parties held on rural acreage approximately 75 miles NE of Sacramento, in Sierra-Nevada mountain foothills.
Baker Beach, SF CA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinky people who enjoy nude sunbathing at Baker Beach.
Bakersfield BDSM Armory, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For local members of Bakersfield, Fresno, and Visalia munch groups. Local shooting events for local kinksters.
Bakersfield BDSM Munch group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Pansexual group. Open to anyone local to Bakersfield or surrounding areas. Hosts monthly munches and other activities during the month.
Bakersfield Black Doms and white subs/slaves, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Bakersfield Brats, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those looking to be around other littles, for those who need to let their little side out every once awhile is welcomed. To socialize and get to know one another within the safety of online and eventually offline as we all start to get comfortable with one another.
Bakersfield CA spanking group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For locals into giving or receiving real spankings, possibly meeting in real life, to talk about aspects of spanking or other spanking related issues.
Bakersfield pegging, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people into or interested in pegging in the Bakersfield area.
Bakersfield Polyamory Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dedicated to polyamorous relationships and those participating in them. Respectful to all views. Supports both kinky and non-kinky relationships. Encourages, offers advice.
BARE (Bay Area Rigger’s Exchange), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Seeks to connect Bay Area and its depth of rope experience, with the incredible pulse happening in Europe and Japan around Shibari. Dream up future classes, find practice partners, and share resources, information and inspiration. Goal: To connect the rope community.
The Bare Necessities (Sacramento), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Created to spread the hippy love of being nude in a warm fuzzy accepting environment to help promote and improve people’s sense of self-worth, mental well-being, tolerance levels, and overall attitude through loving all parts of themselves.
Bash~N~Dash, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Hillcrest. Ongoing weekly morning coffee tradition. Wonderfully delightful group of kinksters coming from all walks of life. Very casual and open location. Great place to simply relax among kinky friends whether it be your first time out or have been playing forever!
Bastille Dungeon in Longbeach, CA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= CLOSED = Spring 2012 – Fire
Bay Area Ageplay (Age Play) Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those into age play to chat about local goings-on and meet your fellow local age players.
Bay Area Ageplay and Other Related Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
If you are into ageplay or any of its tangents and live in the Bay Area, please post personal ads here.
Bay Area Adult Role Play, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23, SPAM
Bay area BBC lovers and cuckolding, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-01
To connect Bay Area BBC lovers with the black men they desire; to help cuckolding couples find what they want.
Bay Area Bi-sexuals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Bay Area Bi-sexual people to meet, discuss topics, and enjoy the company of like-minded people. All welcome to join.
Bay Area Breast Play Party, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who wish to attend breast play parties in the East Bay Area of SF (Vallejo for right now).
Bay Area Business Referrals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone in the Greater SF Bay Area who owns a small vanilla or kinky business to post about what services or products they offer, whether it is a brick and mortar, online, or vendor/craft show only business.
Bay Area California BDSM Monogamous AND Kinky!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Kinky people looking for a monogamous relationship.
Bay Area Crossdressers and Admirers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For SF Bay Area crossdressers and their admirers to gather, meet, discuss, and share their experiences.
Bay Area Diaper Enthusiasts (BRiDgE), verified 2015-Mar-23
Serves adult babies, diaper lovers, infantilists, etc., of the SF Bay Area, as well as those traveling to the area. Goal: To promote the local community by distributing information on meetings and providing a forum for discussion.
Bay Area Foodies, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For SF and Bay Area Kinksters of all persuasions who love all things food – from a lovingly prepared pot of soup to restaurants where the meal is an orgasmic journey.
Bay Area Furries, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those that identify as furry or are involved in the fandom by proxy, near the Bay Area.
Bay area gang bang, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dedicated to those that enjoy the kinkier side of the lifestyle.
Bay Area Gangbangs and Orgy, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Raw and animalistic – return to your roots with the taste of absolute flesh. Real time players in the lifestyle that also incorporates D/s into the world of vanilla lifestyle parties.
Bay Area Greet and Eat- for those who like to be fed their fill!, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-04
For those of us who are active in, as well as those who possess a real interest in, the weight gain/feedism/belly stuffing community in the SF Bay Area.
bay area kinky creatives, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For creative people to join and share their arts, their passion toward arts. No rules but creatives, artists, writers, photographers, as soon as you make things from nothing.
Bay Area Kinky Queers of Color, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Safe space for kinky queer people of color to chat, organize meetups, and make new connections with one another.
Bay Area Lingerie Lovers, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-08
Goals: To talk about all things lingerie; and to plan actual shopping excursions.
Bay Area Party/Event Organizers & Hosts, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Where Organizers & Hosts/Co-Hosts can talk about: Parties/events, venues, banned people, issues/problems, dates/time, all related issues about parties/events
Bay Area Petplay, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Connect with others in the Bay Area that are into pet play–kittens, puppies, ponies, bunnies, birdies and pets of all kinds (and their owners).
Bay Area Poly Circular Type Relating (ie triangular, quadratic, etc) This group is not for straight men, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who are interested or prefer to relate where the people they love can be in relationship with one another (whether you currently have a “line” or “v type” relationship, or are single now or not.
Bay Area Queer TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For 18-35 kinky queers in the Bay Area (SF, Oakland, Marin, etc.) Post events, network with others, meet up for a munch, do a skill share.
Bay Area Rope Rendezvous (BARR) Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
San Jose. For all levels of rope enthusiasts and people who like to be tied up by them.
Bay Area Sacred Kink (BASK), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Community for Kinky Bay Area Sacred-Erotic Explorers. Classes – Workshops – Events – Conversation
Bay Area Super Heroes (B.A.S.H.), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For SF Bay Area and near region super heroes and heroines as well as super-villains and villainesses.
Bay Area Taboo, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Feel free to discuss, without negative response, your kinkiest, strangest, most bizarre fantasies and desires.
BBW & BHM_n_Los Angeles surrounding area, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all BBWs and BHMs and those who know how to appreciate them.
BBW and their admirers BDSM Munch & Social of Northern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Supportive atmosphere, social fun, and a few laughs for women of any sizes, identity, and the folks that desire them. Gives beautiful women in the kink community a place to mix, find out about size positive events, and gather.
bbw california, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Kink group for all larger size ladies and admirers.
BBWKisses Party Group, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
For BBWs and those that admire them. Lifestyle parties.
BDSM 201 Series, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-20
Builds on foundation laid out by the popular BDSM 101 series; takes students to the next level. Focus on theory, different styles of play, as well as a comprehensive study on the mindset behind what we do and who we are as lifestyle players. Sanctuary LAX.
BDSM Bikers So Ca, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For motorcyclist to talk about motorcycles and related things.
BDSM Content Exchange in California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For models and producers, photographers and lifestylers who want to produce their own websites and movies.
BDSM Domain So Cal Alt, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23 = SPAM =
BDSM Events & Information for Southern California, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Announcement list designed to publicize SM, B/D, D/s, and leather events in the Greater Southern CA Area. Participation by list members in posting events, workshops, support groups, etc, is welcome and encouraged.
BDSM Formal Dining, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone who enjoys High Protocol service on Dining and Serving at Meals and Parties, or those who enjoy good food and socializing with close friends in Kink during meals. Los Angeles based.
BDSM in Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Open group for locals who enjoy the BDSM lifestyle and meeting and sharing thoughts with others.
BDSM_SFbay, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For SF Bay Area kinksters.
BDSM SOCal, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Group of People in the lifestyle, trying to find others they can Experience this great lifestyle with.
BDSM West, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Individuals that share a common interest in the lifestyle. Come here to share information in a friendly, non-judgmental fashion.
Beach Cities Social, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Pansexual gathering for those interested in BDSM, Leather, D/s, and M/s. Meets monthly. 21+ event
The Bear Cave, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Events in Fresno.
Bears LA, verified 2015-Mar-23
Bears LA, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
501(c)3 public charity. Sponsors & organizes variety of social events, Mr. SoCal Bear & Mr LA Leather Bear. All-inclusive group supporting camaraderie, fun & friendship while giving to charitable causes and encouraging community service.
Bear’s Lair, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
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Beat and Greet San Diego, verified 2015-Mar-23
Social impact play event for friendly people to learn more about flogging, paddling and other forms of impact play. Demonstrating techniques on eager volunteers and curing the curiosities of those with questions. Nothing too wild, just pleasantly kinky enough to bring a smile.
BEAT to the BEAT, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-26
Bi monthly Funky Dance and Impact Play Party at the Citadel. Dance together as one kinky tribe. Men, Women, Cis,Trans*, Pups, Kittens, D/s, M/s. Top, bottom, Switch, Gay, Bi, Straight, A, Queer, Pan, Poly, Mono.
Bent: SFC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Play party designed by and for kinky youth (18-30’s); a vibrant and vivacious youth event without a drunken brothel vibe. Held exclusively at the SF Citadel at least every quarter.
Berkeley Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For perverts, the kinky, and the “alternatively sexually” (age 18+) to meet others of similar (or dissimilar) interests over some food and drink.
Beverly Hills Kinky Folks, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinky folks in Beverly Hills to start meeting all and setting up some local events and parties
BHM’s and BHM admirers in Southern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Big Handsome Men and admirers in Southern CA to gather
Bi Poly Men, All women, and All other genders who are not straight men, SF Bay area 4 dating and/or Friendship in Real life, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Group with A Love Positive Environment.
Big Beefy Bay Area & NorCal, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
For big, beefy, handsome men in the Bay Area/NorCal, and the women (and other men, and what have you) who love them. For socialization and discussion.
A Big Little Con, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-20
SoCal. Conference for littles, bigs, middles, ABDL, dollies, pets, owners and everyone interested in Ageplay and Petplay. Includes amazing educational presentations, demos, workshops, social event opportunities, a Play Party.
A Big Little Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
San Diego. Focus: Education and support for those who participate in consensual adult roleplay and relationships. Pansexual group; welcomes all dynamics and sexual orientations. For Daddies, Mommies, Caregivers, Pet Owners, Littles, Middles, ABDLs, Pets, all focus on Age Play and Pet Play.
The Big Pink House, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Hosts social gatherings, play parties, and workshops.
Bisexual Masters Mistress and subs slaves Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Dominants, Masters and Mistresses, slave owners, collared subs and slaves. Open discussion and personal ads and advertising of LA and nearby Events. Discuss bisexual and pansexual relationships. Bisexual Female Male Transsexuals Intersexuals and everyone else welcome.
Black Doms 4 white female subs in Cali, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Where CA Black Dominant men attracted to Non Black women can meet, discuss, and share their passion and love for our chosen Lifestyle. Goal: To logistically schedule munches-outings-meetings with each other.
Black Masters, Mistresses, Dom’s and Domme of Southern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Open to all. Purpose: Networking, educating and building the Black BDSM community.
Blondie’s Delight, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-23
Fun group for swingers and those ok with some light kink. House parties monthly. Provides a safe, non pressure environment for others to enjoy. Social, play meet other like minded people. All welcome.
Blush, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
Blush, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
SF. Pansexual event with a focus on humiliation. Provides an inclusive space where people of all experience levels can learn, socialize and play. Celebrates all types of humiliation – from light sensual play to objectification and degradation, and everything in between.
Bondage-a-Go-Go, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
We Drink, Smoke and Fuck. Comes together weekly to dance the night away and interact with other Freaks. We are Fetishists – into Corsets, Tattoos, Bondage. Horror (in all forms), Body Modifications, Betty Page, Fashion and Art.
BootLovers Social, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-14
For Boot- and glove-loving Fetishists to meet and talk only. Meet, wear your coveted pair, or watch others wear theirs, bring special “bed room only” boots for show and tell, share tips on cleaning, care & collecting, information on custom boot makers, or talk about how boots make you feel.
Bordello of Decadence, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Rosemead. For Friends and Fans to be to be kept up on events and parties.
Bootblack Workshop – Southern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Santa Fe Springs. Monthly gathering for the “sole” purpose of working on our craft. Purpose: to gather together to learn from each other, help each other, and to grow as bootblacks.
Bound Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
A day of workshops and demos covering as many aspects as possible of rope restraint.
Boundless, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Sep-08
Boundless, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Sep-08
Boundless, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Sep-08
4-day intimate kink retreat at a beautiful secluded resort just north of SF. Unique experience, brings together the BDSM, leather, and the sex-positive worlds. All experience levels, kinks, fetishes, sex positive attitudes, genders, and orientations welcome.
Breastfeeding, adult nursing, lactation, California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Anyone interested in breastfeeding, ANR, ABF, lactation in CA.
Burbank Pasadena Kinky Meetup, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Meetup Group for Burbank-Pasadena. Meet and eat discussions in restaurants and other places. Social networking group.
Butte County BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Kinky inhabitants of Butte Co. and its neighbors are free to come here to discuss all things BSDM. Hope to have meets in the near future. (Biggs, Chico, Gridley, Oroville, and Paradise).
Butte/Glenn/Tehama BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who live in Butte, Glenn or Tehama Co., and those who visit regularly.
Buy, Sell, Trade Humboldt, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone looking to buy, sell, or trade with people in the area. Post things you are selling and looking for.
CA BBW Foot Fetish Group & Events, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For BBW’s (size 14+) and Foot Fetishist who love them, and residing in CA
CA- Greater Bay Area – Looking for Kinkster-friendly Roommates aka DIY “Happy Leather Household”, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For the Greater Bay Area
CA Model exchange, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For: Models in CA, or in need of an alternative model in CA.
Cal State Universities / Cal Poly, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Talk / post about anything from school related to meeting up, to online cam. No restrictions.
Calabasas Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For locals looking to make friends, seek advice, become a slave, or anything else on your mind.
California Bi Sexual Men and the Women who love them, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-28
For Bi/Pansexual men (versatile and bottoms, not exactly for total tops), women (straight, bi, lesbian) who are looking for bi men, gay men who are cool with having man to man sex in front of a woman
California Boots & Breeches Corps, verified 2015-Mar-23
California Boots & Breeches Corps, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Uniform club of men with mutual interest and respect for boots and breeches as worn by police motor officers. Sponsors club and public events throughout the year in the greater LA, SF, and PS areas, including Roll Call, the Folsom Street Fair’s uniform party.
*California Breeding*, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For breeders and those who desire to be bred in CA ONLY please. Personal Ads Encouraged.
California Burningman-y, Pirate-y, Rave-y, Goth-y, Mystic-y, Geek-y, Gypsy, BSDM-y Perverts, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Please list any opportunities in CA or the SW USA: Faires, Parties, Raves, Art Shows, Festivals, Cons, Etc. Also, create unique events with other like-minded souls.
California Classifieds, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For real classified ads for those seeking any kind of BDSM relationship in CA.
California Cougars, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Older women of all races and sizes, and the cubs who desire them.
California Cuckold Connection, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For CA cuckolds to meet local, like-minded women, cuckolds, and bulls.
California daddy’s and princess’s, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Daddies looking for their princess.
California Deaf -HOH – Kinksters and Those Who Support Them, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
So Threshold can assist the local deaf HOH community with finding a home in our kinky community, locate events, find help with organizations who provide help with funding for hearing aids, etc
California Events, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Share all your events.
California FemDom, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Please post events, personals, etc.
California foot fetish, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For men who love female feet, and for females who love 2 get their feet licked, sniffed, sucked, fucked and loved.
California Furries, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Furries and fur friendly people; talk about events, conventions, and general wackiness.
California gangbang/group sex lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those in CA into gang bangs and group sex.
California Glory Holes, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
List addresses if known, for those who may not be familiar with certain cities. Also, please list if said hole is serviced by males, females, or both, and what days are good to frequent them.
California Gold Country TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For locals in the Sierra Nevada Mountains & Foothills to meet other people in the community who share in the fetish lifestyle.
California Golden Shower Network, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Golden Shower givers and takers.
California Goreans, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For offline Gorean events and gatherings. Welcomes all Goreans and those who identify as Gorean-friendly.
California Gun Owners, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Californians who love or own guns. Discussions about the different laws, restrictions, history and/or stories about owning firearms.
California Hookups, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Looking to find someone local? Please include location, age, purpose in your title posting.
California Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For everyone in or lovers of CA who would like to reach out and meet others in the area.
California Kinky Campers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinky people in or visiting CA who enjoy both BDSM and the great outdoors; to help organize camping, hiking and backpacking trips with other kinksters.
California Kinky Rentals, Roommates, & Real Estate: Los Angeles, San Diego, San Jose, San Francisco, Fresno, Sacramento, Long Beach, Oakland & the rest of California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Post here if you’re looking for kink-minded rentals roommates or real estate in LA, SD, San Jose, SF, Fresno, Sacramento, Long Beach, Oakland, etc.
California Lesbians, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Talk, listen, and get to know one another; a safe haven to talk about books, movies, kids, life, etc.
California Monogamous Singles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For singles looking for monogamous, loving relationships in Southern CA.
California Nigger Slave and Master Network, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For nigger slaves, niggers who want to be slaves, and white Masters.
California Nudists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those kinksters who also enjoy nudism openly either at home or freely out in the open; to discuss and make friends with other CA nudists and share with each other.
California Pagans, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Any sort of conversation connected to paganism.
California pegging, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For CA women who enjoy pegging men, and men in CA that love women to peg them.
California Politics, Activism, Philanthropy, and Thinking Globally Acting Locally, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Kink-related political and activism discussions inspired this group, and are preferred.
California Ponygirl, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Women at the ranch in fetish equestrian costume harness. Pictures and movie photo magazine themes. Personals and advertisements welcome.
California Raftgasm-Whitewatersports!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Southern California Paddlers. For those ready to wield an entirely different kind of paddle: Top/bottom/ambidextrous, the River doesn’t judge.
California Short Film Collaboration, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anybody in CA area interested in creating, acting, or promoting short films. All welcome: producers, directors, actors/actresses, engineers, etc.
California Squirters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Meet fellow CA squirters, share stories, make a gushing connection, or anything else related to squirting.
California Studio for Photographers, Models,and Artist, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Monthly photo shoot munch party. Free and open to all in the fetish community.
California Subs & Sluts for Masters with BBC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For the California area. Restricted to: Sub women
California TG and friends, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For friends and admirers. Have fun meeting area lovely ladies.
California Threesomes, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Any posting on this list will need to include basic info.
California Zentai, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people who like to wear, play and exhibit zentai, to discuss zentai adventures, where to purchase zentai, where to exhibit zentai, or to discuss where to meet to mutually enjoy zentai.
Callifornia cum dump, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who love cum in CA.
Cameron Park Munch/Kinky Mountain Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Kinky people getting together to share stories, laughs, and network about kinky events as well as vanilla interests, that happen east of the Sacramento area.
Camp Spanky, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Multi-fetish group that sponsors various activities during the year. Main event: An annual campout. Events held in Southern California.
Capitol Pony, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For human ponies, and those that love them, in the Sacramento Area. Aim: To find local ponies and handlers, to form a group and eventually plan meets, events, and demonstrations.
Casa de Chaos FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
San Jose. Hosts PROvert’s Brunch Munch
CatalystCon – Sparking Communication in sexuality, activism and acceptance, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. About reaching out and stimulating those who attend to create those important conversations in their own communities, changing how we as a society talk and treat sexuality.
CDs TGirls and Shemales in Long Beach CA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To meet FemDoms, Masters, slaves and to just talk about anything they’re into.
The LGBTQ Center of Long Beach, verified 2015-Mar-23
The LGBTQ Center of Long Beach, Fetlife Profile, verified 2015-Mar-23
The LGBTQ Center of Long Beach, Facebook, verified 2015-Mar-23
Monthly BDSM Workshop educational events. Long Beach. Supports safe, healthy practices for expression of sexual diversity irrespective of gender, gender identity, sexual orientation, or alternative activity. Advocates, honors safe environments with no judgment and safe exploration.
Center for Positive Sexuality, verified 2015-Mar-23
Center for Positive Sexuality, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Providing comprehensive, sex-positive education for all, regardless of gender or orientation, through presentations, consultations, and other materials to broaden and enrich your sex life. Located in Los Angeles; virtual Center in SecondLife as well as other online interactions.
Central-Cal Tea Society, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-30
For those who appreciate more formal D/s service and protocols, regardless of sex, orientation or which side of the slash you belong.
Central California ABF & ANR Breastfeeding and Lactation, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those interested in an ABF or ANR relationship or those seeking lactation support in the Central Valley area.
Central California Classified, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For personal ads targeted for local people. Ads can be for someone looking for anything from a one-time play partner to a poly relationship or an LTR.
Central California Diaper lovers and babies, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For locals to find each other, meet and exchange ideas.
Central California Expos, Fairs, Festivals, and Events, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Anything that seems like it would be fun to attend with kinky friends! Anyone can post an upcoming event. Discuss carpools, etc.
Central California Fem Domme Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Creating a venue for continued learning, encouragement and fun stress relief without discrimination of age, color, disability or sexual orientation.
Central California Littles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For “littles” and those in relationships with them or seek relationships or friendship with them, from Fresno to Bakersfield.
Central California Sub Space, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Safe place for Submissives (female or male) to talk with other submissives and feel safe.
Central Coast California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those trying to find, meet, chat, and organize others with FetLife styled Kink. Santa Barbara, Goleta, Ventura, Oxnard, Buellton, Solvang, Santa Ynez, Los Olivos, Los Alamos, Santa Maria, San Luis Obispo, Pismo Beach, Nipomo
Central Coast Polyamory, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For San Luis Obispo/Central Coast poly folk to talk about poly-related issues and meet lifestyle friendly people. Anyone who is polyamorous (multiple relationships, open relationships – adhering to ethical non-monogamy) is welcome.
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Cerritos Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Warm, welcoming, fun loving group. Monthly.
Chastity San Francisco, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those in the SF Bay Area interested in chastity, orgasm control, tease and denial and similar things. Hosts monthly chastity social.
Chatsworth, CA…anything going on?, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
If you live in Chatsworth and are kinky
Chico Area Kink Experience, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Specifically focused on social networking, and building community, munches, and play parties in the Chico / Oroville / Redding area.
Chico Area Littles, Chico, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Bigs / littles / ADLs and age players.
Chico BBW Lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those in Chico area that love big girls (and guys)
Chico Munch, verified 2015-Mar-23
Chico Munch, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Friendly, kinky people in Butte County
Chico TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Geared towards helping and encouraging those 18-35 with social issues that can be present in this lifestyle. Here to discuss, learn, and observe. To play safely and smart, and hopefully get together to meet people our own age who’re of like minds. Marysville/Yuba City to Redding area.
The Citadel, see SF Citadel
Citadel Resurrection, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For the resurrection build for the new Citadel
Citadel Singles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Meeting place for those sharing the San Francisco Citadel and singleness in their lives, to meet and chat. Open to anyone self-identifying at any particular point in time as single, by any definition that pleases.
Claremont College Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For students of the 7-College consortium to network and to talk about kink, BDSM, and life in southern CA. (Claremont McKenna, Claremont Graduate University, Harvey Mudd, Keck Graduate University, Pitzer, Pomona, and Scripps.)
Clovis, California Fetlifers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who live in or frequent this area to chat.
Club Elysium – Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= CLOSED =
Club Hurt, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Kink Arena
Club X, verified 2015-Mar-23
Club X San Diego, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
SD’s largest pansexual leather/BDSM/kink/fetish group. Goal: Education with secondary goals of activism and social activities. Monthly meetings, regular social gatherings, special events, play parties, fundraisers, special interest groups, monthly Board meetings.
Clubb_Sinn Swing Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Fresno. Monthly swingers parties. Specialize in Gang Bangs, Cuckold, Hubbies that like to watch/Voyeurs, Bi Parties and Costume parties.
The Clubhouse! for littles and Bigs of California, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-17
Safe place for CA big and littles to say hello, network, become pen pals, learn, and also one concise place to find all the big/little gatherings and groups within the state.
CM HURT, reviewed 2015-Aug-19
CM HURT Workshop 2015, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-19
Garden Grove. Fully interactive workshop series that encourages and enables the students to learn each topic and skill thoroughly through hands-on experience.
Coachella Valley & Inland Empire Area Lifestyle Friendly Employment (employers/employees), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
List your City in the Coachella Valley & Inland Empire area (Coachella, Indio, Palm Springs, DHS, Riverside, etc) and the position (Employer-seeking employee or Employee-seeking employment. Then create the actual post indicating the employment position available or desired.
Coffee and Conversations (A women’s discussion group), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Meets monthly. San Jose-Santa Cruz. Goals: Offer a comfortable and safe setting for women to meet; Offer support to one another in a group experience relating to women lives.
Concord Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Walnut Creek Munch. Monthly.
Concord Munch Subbie Girls Night Out, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
A Girl (female) Bottom (submissive) Night Out, using the Concord Munch as our spring board. Hope: Newbies to seasoned veterans in the lifestyle will come together to have fun and share, learn, bond and become friends, in a group we can reach out to and depend on.
Concord playmates, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Men and women who like to play safely and have fun
Crafty & Kinky SanFrancisco, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-29
Connect with other local crafters, share projects, ask for feedback or get advice on projects. Leather, rubber, paracord, yarn, paper, anything you can or want to make yourself. Monthly.
Crow Academy, The/Master Arcane’s Domain, verified 2015-Mar-23
Living example of a school of the BDSM Arts where ancient traditions and techniques within the BDSM Universe are utilized right alongside the best of contemporary techniques.
Curves Ahead Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
I’m going to take a concatenation of terrible circumstances and turn it into a bar story chock full of moral ambiguity and maligned chuckles.
CVR….Central Valley Rope, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Friendly bunch of rope lovers living in central CA. Peer based group to share passion for rope. Monthly ‘Open Rope’ sessions are used to share ideas, tips, knowledge, practice time and have fun in a casual atmosphere. Brings presenters in to host rope workshops regularly.
Daddy/Lil Girl _805, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Haven and safe place for D/LG relationships to come and discuss, chat and meet.
Dark Odyssey: SF Happy Hour, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For the BDSM, Poly and Spirituality communities. Welcomes everyone.
Dating Shemales in Southern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For dating and sex dates.
Davis Availables, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people in the area looking for new partners, and not cheating by doing so. Includes singles and people in poly or open relationships.
DDlg in NorCal / SF Bay Area, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For DDlg, Daddy Doms and little girls / babygirls in Northern CA.
Dee’s Meander (easy walking group for kinksters), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
San Jose. Gentle evening walk intended for any and all fitness levels. Age 18+.
Delightful Events in Northern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those wishing to share delicious food and drinks. Focus on food and libations, conversation and connections.
Desert Dungeon, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= CLOSED =
DESIRE Leather Women Unleashed, verified 2015-Mar-23
DESIRE Leather Women Unleashed, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Palm Springs. Educational weekend committed to providing outstanding learning opportunities and experiences for all — novices to advanced players. Excellent education and empowering opportunities. Provides opportunity to make new friends and become part of a growing community of kinky women.
The Destination, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Playspace closed. Hosts education munch.
Deviant Gamers of the West Coast, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Are you a console player, computer, or just a typical player player? And do you live on the West Coast? Want to discuss or find local kinky friends to play video games or tabletop games with?
The Devils Mask Society, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Small group of people in LA that have been working on the study of Japanese Shibari/Kinbaku for fun. Works from the translation of Japanese material of the subjects and try our best to learn what we can.
Diamond Valley people, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
SW Riverside Co. kinksters place to gather. Menifee, Sun City, Temecula, Hemet, Romoland, Winchester, Perris, Lake Elsinore etc.
Diapered in California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone who likes to just relax in a comfy, squishy diaper. Age playing welcome, Adult Babies welcome, Mommies and Daddies welcome, and especially Diaper Lovers
Diapers & Beer: A SoCal AB Meet-Up Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Adult Babies, Toddlers and Littles, Mommies, Daddies and Care Givers looking to connect in real time with others who share in the lifestyle. Focused on Non-Sexual, Age Appropriate play and activities with the intent of bringing folks together for safe, non-judgmental fun.
Disabled kinksters in and around Sacramento, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-01
For discussion and exchange of ideas for those who are disabled as well as those who have disabled play partners.
Domina and Dom Society of Northern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Fosters Dom/Domme and sub relationships, while understanding and supporting women and men with various interest and orientations.
Domina and Dom Society of Southern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Fosters Dom/Domme and sub relationships, while understanding and supporting women and men with various interest and orientations.
The Dominance Factor, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= CANCELED =
Dominant Discussion Group in SF, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Held at SF Citadel. Support and mentoring group for peer to peer interactions between Dominants.
Domme Scout Troop 96, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
LA Area. We take our kink seriously…but we don’t take ourselves too seriously. Monthly meetings. Creates a safe space where Scouts can look like a fool, ask any questions and find power from learning and exploring together as a troop.
The “Don’t Like to Go to Events in L.A. Alone” Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
LA-based group for those who don’t like to go to local events alone, and are looking for a safe, causal, fun way to meet others to “buddy up” with and attend events together.
Downey Kinksters, Chico, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone who lives in Downey and surrounding cities to post for Munches, Play Parties, and ads to meet and have coffee. Anyone welcome.
D/s in the middle on 3rd Sunday of the Month 5pm-7pm hosted by smOdyssey, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Sunnyvale. For all community members with an interest in power exchange, 19+. Mission: To offer an open topic moderated discussion forum and allow people to explore issues relating to D/s relationships.
Dungeon and Dreams Vacaville/Fairfield Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= NO LONGER BEING HELD =
Dungeon Servitus, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dungeon Servitus (San Diego, CA), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
SD’s Premier Femme Domme Boutique Dungeon Since 2004. Specializing in impact, medical and edge play. Private: Intimate: Exclusive.
Dungeon V, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dungeon V San Diego, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
2400 sq.ft. dungeon and studio available for individual rental for private events or sessions and for photography. Hosts monthly play parties.
Dungeon West, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dungeon West, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dungeon West, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
LA. Private BDSM studio, perfect for personal or professional rentals, photo shoots, filming, overnight stay and plays and parties.
DV8s Riders Group, see smOdyssey, DV8s Riders Group
DVC kinky people, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people actively going to or are alumnus of Diablo Valley College in Pleasant Hill or their partners, mates, slaves, masters, doms or whatever else.
DZirous Events on the Gold Coast, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Ventura & Santa Barbara Counties to have access to future Social Events, Classes, Demos. Goal: Bring together the excited passion of the new generations with the knowledge and wisdom of those who have learned by fire in an environment that they can equally learn from and enjoy!
East Bay District Pub Night, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-15
Gathering of like-minded kinksters to socialize and flirt for a few hours during the work week.
East Bay Kinky Sensualists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Kinky Sensualists who live in the East Bay Area of SF.
East Bay Little Munchkins!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For little girls and boys in the East Bay and surrounding areas, and the mommys, daddys and bigs that love them!
East Bay rope/suspension exchange., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For local riggers and rope bottoms interested in meet-ups geared towards knowledge/skill exchange, group practice, photo shoots, and inspiration.
East County Eat, Greet, And Beat, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For East County residents to meet others, grab a bite to eat, make new friends, or make new play partners.
.East County Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Focus: Socials, activities, and events taking place in East SD Co. Announcements, including: personals, professional (non-sexual) services offered, barter suggestions/requests, roommate situations offered or needed, carpools to events beyond east county, news events, etc.
Eastern Sierra Kink Hub, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Open to people in the Eastern Sierras.
Eastside Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
18+ pansexual gathering committed to providing a (currently revolving) location for kinksters to gather and meet one another in a casual setting. Serving Los Feliz-Silverlake-Echo Park-Glendale-Burbank-Eagle Rock-DTLA-K-Town & Hollywood areas of Los Angeles.
Edges: the place to play in the South Bay, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= No longer open =
EscoHoes, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For FetLife users from or living in North County, Escondido
Eureka Munch, verified 2015-Mar-23
Kink in Humboldt County California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Eureka Munch, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Talk about BDSM in general, to inform about specific events in Humboldt, and to help people passing through or moving here find us.
Events in Central California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Strictly for events in Central CA–Fresno, Bakersfield, Visalia, Hanford, etc.
The Exiles, verified 2015-Mar-23
The Exiles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
SF. Educational group for women and those who identify as other than male who have a positive personal interest in BDSM between women. Safe place to meet, explore and share information about safety, play techniques, resources, and connect with the leather community locally and nationally.
Eye Candy Hollywood, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= DEFUNCT =
Fabulous 40’s and Beyond Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Primary focus: For like-minded people in this age group to gather and discuss issues specific to them.
Face Fucking and Deep Throat Lovers of Southern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For like-minded individuals to come together and share.
Factor IX, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Sacramento. From those that brought you the Asylum. Themed nights (such as fetish parties), drink specials, plenty of free parking.
Fantasy Makers Academy, verified 2015-Mar-23
Fantasy Makers Academy, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Offers diverse variety of classes on safety and technique to enhance personal BDSM play. Instructors from a variety of backgrounds: All classes held in East SF Bay Area.
Fantasy Makers and Friends, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Kinky sorority who turned a private home in the El Cerrito Hills into a playhouse. Having fun here since 1990.
Femdom-LiPs, see “*LiP/s*” Munch & Events Only Group – Ladies in Power over subs
The Feminine Denominator – Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For female (or identifying as/living life as female) submissives, bottoms, babygirls, pets, slaves, and switches (wearing their bottom hats) in the Sacramento area. Goal: To come together to learn from and with each other and to grow as people and kinksters.
Fete-a-Fet, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Social group for friends who come together in real life; experienced Dominants and s-types in NorCal Area who enjoy each other’s company, fetishes, as well as outings to enjoy the many delicious tastes, fine pours, wonderful music, and visual pleasures that the area has to offer
FetishMenSanDiego, verified 2015-Mar-23
FetishMenSanDiego, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Non-commercial, new-style affinity-group with no dues, by-laws, elections or obligations. Organizing and promoting an ongoing series of events that bring us together as brothers in the San Diego gay fetishmen community.
Fetlife Party Animals Bay Area, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinky ravers, club goers, and party animals. Post Bay Area parties and events here.
FetNights Southern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To advertise/announce group events, or hook up with other Kinksters
Fitness and Nutrition S.F., East Bay, North Bay, South Bay, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For fitness and nutrition enthusiasts and those interested living in the Bay Area.
Folsom Fringe Weekend, verified 2015-Mar-23
FolsomFringe Weekend… smOdyssey, Inc. signature event, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Held every year on the same weekend as the world-famous Folsom Street Fair. Wonderful complement to other Folsom Street Fair activities for leather folks of all persuasions.
Folsom Lake College Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Very friendly and open. Welcomes everyone!
Folsom Street Fair newbies!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Advice and tips for newbies going to Folsom Street Fair
For The Love Of Daddy – So. CA Daddies / Littles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Network and connect with other Daddies and littles of any persuasion/gender in the area.
FreeKink Santa Barbara, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
So those living in Santa Barbara/Goleta/Carpinteria can share unwanted items with fellow kinksters.
Fremont/East Bay Trinity Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Open forum munch held monthly in Fremont. Everyone welcome to attend, from novice to the highly experienced. Come, join us, and meet other likeminded people.
Fresno & Surrounding Area Bi Couples, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Bi couples looking for M or F playmates in Fresno or Central Valley
Fresno Bi-Friendly, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For and about bisexual, pansexual (and friendly) people in the Fresno, Kings and Tulare Co. areas.
Fresno CA Polyamory, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Fresno CA Polyamory, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
For local polyamorous and poly-curious. Discuss ethics, ask questions, swap stories of triumph or failure, seek council, and find camaraderie with those of like mind. Not a dating, swingers or hookups group.
Fresno, California Fetlifers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all of us who live in or frequent this area to chat.
Fresno Dominant Discusion Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Space where Dominants can speak freely without sub/slaves nearby, learn from each other what works and what doesn’t and how we can be better caretakers of the subs in our charge.
Fresno Dom/subs currently seeking, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Hub for those seeking a Dominant or submissive in the Fresno or Clovis area. All experience levels welcome.
Fresno Fetish Photography, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dedicated to taking amazing photos of people involved in fetish. To educate and to show off the beauty of this lifestyle.
Fresno kink meet, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinksters looking to meet for a casual encounter but are too shy.
Fresno Newbies and Novices, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Purpose: Educating people who are new to the lifestyle in the Fresno area. Open to all ages and genders. Don’t have to be new or novice to join. Host of weekly get together: “What The Fuck Wednesday” (WTFW).
Fresno – Over 30, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Reactionary group.
Fresno Poly and Kinky, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people in Fresno and surrounding, looking for meeting and talking with others. Make new friends, find old friends, find people to play with or starting or adding to your dynamic.
Fresno Puma’s, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those in the 30’s that can’t get enough of younger playmates, and younger playmates that can’t get enough of us.
Fresno Sexually Kinky, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Restricted to: Sexually kinky people or those of us who like sex with our kink!
Fresno- Submissive Safe Space, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dedicated to fostering supportive communication and relationships among fellow submissive/bottom/slaves in Fresno and surrounding areas (Modesto to Bakersfield). Safe place for submissives of any type to ask questions, seek and offer advice, discuss ideas, and have fun.
Fresno Swingers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those in the lifestyle to connect with others.
Fresno Therians/Furries/Pets and the people who <3 Us!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Chat, vent, and ask questions, whether if you’re well established in your identity or new to the concept(s).
Fresno TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Majority in the 20s to early 30s. At this time, not a “play” group. Focuses on the lifestyle and how it affects us in our age group.
Fresno Under 25, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
People in or around Fresno ages 18-25 (bit older is fine if you look and act and feel 25 or under and are comfortable being in under 21 clubs or restaurants).
Fresno Visalia Bakersfield Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those seeking others in Fresno-Visalia-Tulare-Bakersfield and surrounding areas.
Friends in Vallejo, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people in Vallejo and surrounding areas like Benicia, American Canyon, and even Napa, to get to know each other and maybe hang out in a group. Maybe start a book club or a game night.
Full moon SF beach meetup, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Beach meetup, fetish, on full moon nights in the SF area.
Fullertonians, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Meet others in the Fullerton area.
Gangbangs in Los Angeles, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-25
Mission: Create an inclusive, safe environment for single women, couples and even men, who are in a common fetish and are like minded. Founded 2006.
GatewayBDSM, verified 2015-Mar-23
GatewayBDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= CLOSED = Sold, see Cat’s House, Fetlife
The Gauntlet ,Santa fe Springs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
The Gauntlet ,Santa fe Springs, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
New space for Long Beach, Lakewood, Downey, Norwalk, Cypress and surrounding.
Gay San Diego, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
SD area guys into BDSM kink of any kind: CBT, Bondage of all kinds, Ass play, flogging, leather, outdoors sex, team sex, porn, contest sex, edging, cum control, electric, military, pow, rubber,… Male only
Gay Watersports in California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Where likeminded gay men can meet to exchange information and experience about watersports with an emphasis on sharing locations, times and places where piss parties take place in CA.
Genesis TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= INACTIVE =
The Girl Gang, reviewed 2015-Jul-31
The Girl Gang, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-31
SFBay area. Cabal of Femme Fatales has conjured the occasional fest where they celebrate the Domme-sploitation of the hapless male. Take the concept of a classic BDSM Session, add 4 beautiful, demanding women with skills and experience in training, teasing, trampling, tying, testing their prey.
Girls Night Out!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Female-rich, high-energy play party where women could truly let their hair down and be their primal selves. Formal or casual, prim or pig, leather or fetish, butch or femme, gay, bi, or straight, just pure, raw female energy.
Girls of Leather (Inland Empire), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
GOLIE. Education, Charity, Service. Creating a safe space for girls in our leather community to find allies and peers. For all self-identified girls and women of all orientations within IE kink/fetish/leather communities.
Glendale/Burbank/Pasadena Locals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all those living in or near the viSINity of Glendale, Burbank, Pasadena, etc.
Glendale, Ca Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Average, ordinary, everyday people who are not afraid to express the fetish sides of their private lives with other like-minded individuals.
Godless Perverts, verified 2015-Mar-23
SF. Monthly. Evening of conversation and socializing. All orientations, genders, and kinks (or lack thereof) welcome.
Goleta Ministry of Love, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-20
Monthly slosh and social group. Goleta, Isla Vista, Santa Barbara area. Meet people, have a drink and talk about anything, especially BDSM. Dress is casual, atmosphere is relaxed. Any orientation and gender are welcome, and any kink done consensually is fine.
GOLIE, see Girls of Leather (Inland Empire)
Good Vibes in the Inland Empire, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Open to everyone regardless of gender, cis-gender and trans-gender alike. All functions open, regardless of how you identify. Would like to host a variety of functions, from vanilla family oriented to RACK scenes and demos.
The Greater Los Angeles & Southern California Fetish Photographers and Models Exchange, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Post casting calls for models or photographers, education forums, practice shoots, and related events in Greater LA area. Primary emphasis: To interact with others within driving distance of each other, and to contribute to joint ventures such as teaching classes and practice shoots.
Grizzly’s Bullwhips by the Bay, verified 2015-Mar-23
Grizzly’s Bullwhips by the Bay, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Twice-monthly peer workshop for those enthusiastic about whips and whip throwing.
Grizzly’s “Not Necessarily Single” events, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Variety of social opportunities intended for anyone of any relationship status in the various local sex positive communities.
GROK: Glendora Regional Order of Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Welcomes all kinksters interested in creating kinky connections in the Glendora area. Intent: Encourage friendships and new connections by hosting regular munches or other activities.
The Group in Fresno, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Committee led organization, 100s of members. Holds educational and social events every month. Prides ourselves in our friendliness. Special events, field trips, classes, workshops, demos and social events.
Hanford Area Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
All about having fun–Get together with other kinksters for munches and other activities such as movies or a night out on the town at a club.
Hanford Kinksters Unite, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinksters in Hanford or Kings Co. and Fresno area. To chat and get to know those that are around.
Harbin & Lake County, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who work, live and/or play in Lake Co.
The Hard Edge, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
SD. Weekend event for advanced players of all orientations. Workshops presented will be on subjects that are not SM 101 topics. Opportunity to explore the edge of play and beyond. Features nationally known presenters and assistants from all over the US.
Heavy Hitters Society, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Monthly get-togethers in Central Valley. Practice flogging, whipping, paddling, caning, and all manners of impact play, no matter experience level. One on one training, new techniques, try new toys, awesome presenters, discussions, resources, and information.
HellfireFetishClub, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Chico. BDsM fetish group. Welcomes all types. Prides itself on reliability, safety, fun, and passion, safety first, teamwork, fun, and honesty. No one excluded.
Hellfire Riders Chico – CA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Focus: Gather kinky motorcycle enthusiasts for events and monthly rides. Dedicated to combining passion for all things kinky with the unyielding love of motorcycles and taking it to the open road!
Hemet Area Munch a.k.a. HAM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Reaching the southern IE communities. Gathers monthly in the Hemet area to socialize and enjoy each other’s company.
Hemet California magic locals, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-22
For Hemet and surrounding areas to meet and talk magic. Possibly meet and play as well as talk nerdy dirty and meet fun likeminded people.
Heresy, verified 2015-Mar-23
Heresy, Facebook, verified 2015-Mar-23
¦ H E R E S Y ¦ Bakersfield’s Fetish • Dark Alternative Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Bakersfield’s most unique night club event, where the children of the Underworld, Social Misfits and Fetish Enthusiasts meet once a month to celebrate the darker and more sensual side of life.
High Desert, CA Geeks Unite!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Computers, Comics, Anime. If it’s Geeky or Nerdy and you are into it, this is the place for you.
High Desert Hangout, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Monthly munch, play party, or other group sponsored events in a safe and comfortable atmosphere. No matter the experience level, all welcome.
High Desert/Inland Empire ~ Bigs & littles R Us, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Fun, safe place to get to know locals (Adelanto, Apple Valley, Barstow, Hesperia, Phelan, Pinon Hills, Victorville, Wrightwood and IE). For Daddys, Mommys, Uncles, Aunties, Handlers, littles, middles, brats, babygirls, babyboys & Age players.
High Desert Paleo, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Kinksters interested in the paleo diet, paleo lifestyle, CrossFit, functional training, strength & conditioning, etc. that reside in Apple Valley, Victorville, Hesperia, Oak Hills, Lucerne Valley, Adelanto, Phelan, Wrightwood, Barstow, High Desert.
High Desert Single Swingers, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
= INACTIVE =
? Hitchin’ Bitches: Southern California Division ?, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For female rope riggers/rope tops/dominants in Southern CA-LA, SD, OC. Meets once a month to learn, share and experience rope first hand, based upon the Peer to Peer and unconference learning and sharing concepts.
Hollywood California Locals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Forum of local events, and to get to know our fellow kinky neighbors.
Hollywood Singles Munch Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For LA area single people serious about meeting people in real time and not just on the computer. Hosts monthly munch, monthly Play Party, to chat it up, laugh and enjoy some good food and have some fun.
Hollywood Spanking Munch and Party Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Hollywood, Burbank and Glendale area. Monthly Play Party, Munch. Open communication, participation and fun highly encouraged.
Hollywood TNG (18-35), FetLife, reviewed 2015-Mar-25
For young, likeminded kinksters, ages 18-35
Hookups close to San Francisco, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Want to meet someone within a 2 hour drive of SF? Try it here. Anything from one time to permanent – just be honest and forthright in your description. Long term to short term, poly or monogamous.
Hot Southern Nights, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For information and comments about a series of play parties in the South Bay area
House of Kane (Members Only), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Private D/s Social Club. Canoga Park. Sexy singles and kinky couples, 18+ welcome. Exclusively for D/s minded people who understand and accept that they are the main attraction at social events, and that understanding is reflected in their attitude, appearance, and attire.
The House of Spank-O’s. Socal connection, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
The House of Spank-O’s. Socal connection, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For spanking lovers of all kinds to keep in touch with southern CA spank-O’s. Munches and parties.
Human Fox Hunt – Northern California, verified 2015-Mar-23
Human Fox Hunt – Northern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Unforgettable experience combines animal roleplay, chase and capture scenarios, play parties, and high-fetish for a weekend of fun, frolic and fantasy. All animal role players are welcomed: puppies, ponies, foxes, furries, shinies, and mythical beasts!
Humboldt CA Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Inquiries for people in Humboldt Co.
Humboldt Furries, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For furries, people who love furries, and those curious about furries in Humboldt Co.
Humboldt Queer BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Purpose: To help create a Queer BDSM community, and sober Queer dungeon scene in Humboldt Co., an adjunct to the Queer Munch. Also a support group.
The Hump, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For 30-year-olds to have support they need to deal with this time in their lives. Will hold events such as formal dinners (not necessarily suit and tie) and get-togethers, play parties, various outings.
HumSubs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Sub support group and discussion group, for people identifying in a bottom role (sub/slave/pet/girl/boy/etc) who live in Humboldt Co.
Hypnosis in LA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For discussion of erotic hypnosis, its uses and dynamics.
Hypnosis in Orange County CA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For hypnotists local to OC and the rest of Southern CA. Subjects and ’tists are welcome to join, arrange meet ups, etc.
I am into everything to do with Black and willing to prove it, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Black men who live in Southern CA and all of the woman who would like to chat with and or meet one.
I Stand Sacramento, see Sacramento We Stand
Independent Davis Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Friendly individuals sharing the common interest of kink.
Inland Empire BBC Bukakke partiess, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those living in IE who want to meet up for a little fun.
Inland Empire BDSM, San Bernardino and Riverside Counties CA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Meeting place for all involved in the BDSM Community to socialize, become friends, party and play.
Inland Empire California Steampunk, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Welcomes Steampunkers of all kinds, be you Furry, Future, Fetishist, Fashonista or just a Fan.
Inland Empire Gay/Bi/Pan Kinky Men, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-04
For men that desire local play with other men. Heteroflexible men and those curious about man on man play also welcome. A way to find each other.
Inland Empire Misfits, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-15
All-inclusive to race, religion, genders, disabilities, orientations, kinks.
Inland Empire Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Anyone in IE can place their Personal Ads here (searching, seeking, looking for, etc). All welcome, regardless of your orientation or relationship status, and what you’re looking for
Inland Empire Rope Enthusiasts, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Offers space for members to come together and share ideas, and to learn from each other in a friendly, casual environment. Fosters positive and respectful growth. Provides a space for serious students of all genres of rope bondage
Inland Empire sisters in submission, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Support/social/luncheon group for women (gender identity, does not have to be cis-women) who identify as submissive/slaves to come and talk, get support, learn from others, and have fellowship. Caters to female slave/subs ONLY and their concerns in IE (San Bernardino, Riverside Counties).
Items for Sale in the Bay Area & Northern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Sell or barter items in the Bay Area and Northern CA. If you live out of the area but the person can still order the item from you, please advertise your item here.
It’s Complicated Munch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-22
SF. For those with a complex identity (self identified as trans, queer, poly, switch, or something else that feels complicated) or a complicated relationship(s) are welcome. Welcomes all persons of any gender, identification, etc.
IV munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For the people that live in Isla Vista or Goleta to have an active role in the local kink community
Jewish Kinksters in Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Gay, straight, bisexual, lesbian or transgendered… whether your male or female, domme or sub
Keep Pirate’s Cove Weird, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For everyone who loves Pirate’s Cove, a beautiful nude beach on CA’s gorgeous Central Coast. Wants to keep Pirate’s Cove naked, weird and fun!
KFC – Kinky Fresno Chicks, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Gathering spot for the chicks who go to Kinky Chicks.
KinkCares-Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For charitable organizations to announce events, request donations, and calls for volunteers. Lifestyles and Community causes especially welcome.
Kink Day Outings – Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For outings to different places such as the zoo, camping, hiking, theme parks, fairs, etc. Primarily for events that don’t necessarily revolve around BDSM activities.
Kink in Humboldt County California, see Eureka Munch
Kink In The 805, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For announcements of any event gathering within the 805 or any major event. Wants to see kinksters get connected to the community, and to take advantage of available resources.
Kink Ink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Sacramento-based group for writers of BDSM/fetish-themed stories and erotics.
Kinksters, Incaffeineated, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Sacramento. Casual group of kinky folks that meets monthly for libations and licentious conversation.
Kinksters of SoCal, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those in Southern CA to gather for discussions, networking, and promoting a productive, positive, and pleasurable experience on and off-line. Discuss and/or promote yourself, events, lifestyle, and anything else that you’d like to share with those in your local community.
Kinksters of the San Bernardino Mountains, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For any likeminded individuals who live, work, and/or play in the SB Mountains from Crestline, Lake Arrowhead, Running Springs, Big Bear, and any communities in between.
Kinky at Cal (and Mills), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Connect with other kinky members of the UC Berkeley and Mills campus communities
Kinky Cali Stoners, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Marijuana related topics. No personals.
Kinky Card Players of Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For individuals in the kink community who enjoy playing cards. Poker, Spades, you name it. Will be organizing game nights throughout LA. Fun, friendly game nights with an edge. All levels welcome. Spectators also welcome to join.
Kinky Chicks!, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-06
SF. To bring those who identify as female together for friendship and support.
Kinky Connoisseurs of LA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Foodies meet Kinksters! (Epipervians?) Every other month, meets for fine dining at a wonderful, LA-area restaurant. A chance to enjoy good food & wine with friends (old & new) and to share our interest in finer sensualities and appreciation on many levels.
Kinky Connoisseurs of Orange County, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Foodies meet Kinksters! (Epipervians?) Every other month, meets for fine dining at a wonderful, LA-area restaurant. A chance to enjoy good food & wine with friends (old & new) and to share our interest in finer sensualities and appreciation on many levels.
Kinky Connoisseurs of San Diego, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Whether a connoisseur of gourmet food, fine wines, artisanal brews, or first-class cigars, this is a forum for delectable discourse on and about favorite tasty topics.
Kinky Gamers Los Angeles, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-08
For every kind of gamer that also has a bit of a deviant side (Table Top games, Trading Card games, Card games, Console games, Computer games, Live Action Role-Play (LARPs)
Kinky Karaoke (San Francisco), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those interested in meeting, singing, drinking, beating.
Kinky Karaoke – SoCal, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Karaoke meetups in Southern CA: SD, LA, OC, IE. Whether you’re in Newport Beach, Riverside, Chula Vista, Van Nuys, or beyond, connect with other kinky karaoke stars for local get-togethers.
Kinky Professionals of Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dedicated to providing a venue in which kinky individuals can advertise and promote their non-kinky business services and professional skills.
Kinky Trojans (USC), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Kinksters from the University of Southern California, or friends and family of Trojan Kinksters, alumni or current student.
Kinky Wine Soirees, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
KinkyZin Wine events appeal to those who enjoy being served a lovely glass of vino with a side of kink, all with exotic elegance, stemware & leather! Fetish friendly events brought to your location. Discretion when needed, flamboyance when not.
Kinky Women Who Like Women, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For women (cis, trans, genderqueer, etc all welcome). Goal: Create a supportive, friendly space to organize social activities & openly express views, questions, & opinions on sexuality, gender issues, etc. & how they relate to BDSM or “What It Is We Do”. LA area events.
KiSS Fresno (Kink in Sacred Sexuality), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Share the Spiritual Side of Leather and BDSM, spiritual experiences and questions that may arise as we travel our own spiritual journey. Not defined as a group with any single religious denomination, affiliation or endorsement. A spiritual kink group.
KiSS Sacramento (Kink in Sacred Sexuality), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dedicated to providing a pansexual, spiritually open environment where people can come together, online and off, to intelligently discuss techniques, philosophies and personal thoughts on how to enrich our lives through the blending of Leather/BDSM/kink and spiritual practices.
Knot Interested, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Brings the rope community of Sacramento together to learn from each other and provide resources for one another. Multiple events each month: basic rope bondage classes and workshops and get-togethers for the more advanced members of the community
KUFF at UCSB, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
KUFF at UCSB, Google, verified 2015-Mar-23
Kink University Fetish Fellowship. For all kink minded folk of all experience levels. Discuss current issues in the kink community, talk and learn about safety, technique, experiences, hang out, and have fun.
LA Cigar Ladies, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-05
For women or those who identify as women, and those who support them, to discuss cigar love, plan meet-ups or various brands they love.
LA crossdressers who like women, and women who likes us, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For trannies who like to date women? Who likes genetic girls? And where do those genetic girls go who want to try meeting trannies, but assume that they aren’t welcome? Domme/sub events.
L.A. Fetish Models, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For fetish models who live and work in, or travel to, LA.
LAgoL (Los Angeles girls of Leather), verified 2015-Mar-23
LAgoL (Los Angeles girls of Leather), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
LAgoL (Los Angeles girls of Leather), FetLife Profile, verified 2015-Mar-23
Self-identified Leather girls. Membership not limited by race, creed, orientation or gender; however, identification of Leathergirl is essential.
LA/OC Trans, Butches, and Bois, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Where SoCal Boi’s, Butches, and Transfolks can meet and talk and hook up.
LA Poly, FetLife, verified 204-Mar-26
For open-minded polyamorists in LA; Orange, San Bernardino, San Diego, Riverside, and Ventura Counties. Singles, couples, and multiples of all genders and preferences welcome.
LA Pony & Critter Club (LAPCC), verified 2015-Mar-23
LA Pony & Critter Club (LAPCC) Calendar, verified 2015-Mar-23
LA Pony & Critter Club (LAPCC), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
LA Pony & Critter Club (LAPCC), Facebook, verified 2015-Mar-23
LA Pony & Critter Club (LAPCC), Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Mission: Promote and maintain pony and critter play in LA, recognized positively within pony play, critter play and BDSM communities worldwide. Goal: To provide a safe environment for pony and critter play enthusiasts to meet and play in Los Angeles and to have fun.
LA-RAWW, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Radical and Wicked Women (RAWW, formally LA-RAWW), verified 2015-Mar-23
Radical and Wicked Women. Southern CA-based. Goal: Foster a welcoming organization that provides a safe, discreet and supportive environment for women to explore and share interest in kink, bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadomasochism and leather or any combination.
LA Rope Dojo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Mission: To educate western audiences about the history, practice, and art of Japanese rope bondage.
LA Rope Group, verified 2015-Mar-23
LA Rope Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Pansexual meeting of people who play with rope bondage. Make friends, share knowledge, learn from others, and practice bondage in a safe and welcoming environment.
LA Social, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
= INACTIVE =
Ladies In Charge of Kink (LICK), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
OC-based Femme Domme group. Any and all females including Cis, Transgendered, Lesbian, etc. welcome, whether Domme or sub, top or bottom. Males are submissive or bottoms only. No male Doms.
Ladies of Orange County (L.O.C.), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For private home gatherings for Ladies and our submissive male husbands/mates.
LADs – Los Angeles Dommes and subs, verified 2015-Mar-23
LADs – Los Angeles Dommes and subs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
LADs (Los Angeles Dommes & subs), Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Safe and open place for adult lifestyle (real life) Female Dominants and the submissives (male and female) who adore them to meet, network and plan.
Ladies in Power over subs, see “*LiP/s*” Munch & Events Only Group – Ladies in Power over subs
Lair De Sade, verified 2015-Mar-23
Lair de Sade, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
The “Lair DeSade”, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
N.Hollywood. Private membership organization established for the pleasure and recreation of Erotic Power Exchange enthusiasts and D/s lifestylers. First priority: Providing a safe outlet for freedom of association/expression.
Lake Forest Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Local south OC group. Goal: Meeting new people and providing a warm, friendly and inviting atmosphere for people in the kinkster community.
Leather Alliance, verified 2015-Mar-23
Leather Alliance, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Committed to creating a welcome and supportive environment for members of the SF Bay Area leather, fetish, kink and motorcycling communities. Seeks to facilitate community members in safely learning, growing, connecting, honoring and enjoying each other.
Leather In Common, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Sacramento based, women-only, membership-based collaborative dedicated to supporting cissexual and transgendered women in the BDSM lifestyle, as we connect and commune through both kinky and vanilla related activities.
Leather Shabbat, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Kinky Jews in and around SF who periodically gather together to celebrate the Sabbath with blessings and a communal meal.
The Leather Spirit, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= No longer meeting =
The Leather Spirit-Bay Area, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Social and educational group for Bay Area leatherfolk interested in the integration of radical sexuality and spirituality. Questions or comments about The Leather Spirit-Bay Area and/or the integration of radical spirituality and radical sexuality welcomed.
Leathermen’s Discussion Groupsee , San Francisco Leathermen’s Discussion Group
Legion of Sin MC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Kinky collection of motorcycle enthusiasts from the SF Bay Area looking to ride & socialize. Welcomes all kinksters regardless of age, sex, orientation, race, status, or level of kinkiness. Only requirement that you are kinky and ride.
“Let’s Get Nerdy!” (Long Beach & Neighbors, CA), FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-04
For those whom love nerdy things (D&D, Magic the Gathering, Anime/Manga, etc.) and to find people to play with.
LGBPQ California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals, Pansexuals, Queers and Asexuals, and our Heterosexual friends, family, supporters, and admirers, to come together and form a community in CA, to provide support, to organize the community to action in the furtherance of civil rights for the BDSM and-or LGBPQ community.
LICK, see Ladies In Charge of Kink (LICK)
LifeIcing, verified 2015-Mar-23
LifeIcing Calendar on Kasidie, verified 2015-Mar-23
Started as a place for sensually adventurous LIfestyle couples and sexy singles to meet others with similar interests. Our vision of The Lifestyle is entirely about sensual freedom and respect for individual play preferences. Events are no pressure or obligation and always held at a neutral location.
Lifestyle FrienDs, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Real-time group of like-minded individuals, 18+, living in and around Antelope Valley (Acton, Palmdale, Lancaster, Rosamond, Mojave). Meet on a regular basis, for socializing, sharing information and having fun with others interested in and living the D/s lifestyle. Novice to experienced, all aspects of the lifestyle.
“*LiP/s*” Munch & Events Only Group – Ladies in Power over subs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Femdom-LiPs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Ladies in Power over subs. SF Bay Area/N.CA-based group of Female Dominants and subs of all genders who adore Dominant Women.
The littles in Fresno, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For littles, mommies and daddies, and their admirers. No personal ads please. Non-threatening, non-sexual, safe place for littles to help to get to know others in their area and also set up play dates, munches and events as well.
LittleSpace Sacramento, verified 2015-Mar-23
LittleSpace Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Facilitating playdates, parties, and discussions for littles & Bigs, Daddies & babygirls, and AB/DLs in our area. For anyone interested in ageplay or non-ageplay D/g-type relationships.
LLW: Leather Levi Weekend, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Annual four-day queer Twisted Summer Camp, plus associated events in the city. Objective/purpose: To actively promote and encourage the education, training, socialization and integration of members and newcomers to the leather, S&M, kink and fetish communities.
Locked: SFC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
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Lompoc Social, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For the Lompoc Valley, Santa Ynez Valley, Santa Maria Valley, and surrounding areas in northern Santa Barbara Co., including Buellton, Los Olivos, Los Alamos, Orcutt, Santa Maria, Santa Ynez, Guadalupe, Vandenberg Village, Ballard, Garey, Sisquoc, Casmalia, Solvang.
Long Beach Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Long Beach.
Long Beach Pride Leather Expo, reviewed 2015-Jul-14
Long Beach Pride Leather Expo, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-14
Bringing leather kink to a pride festival near you.
Long Beach Weekly Munch Updates and Postings, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Long Beach weekly munch.
The Looking Glass, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Located in SF East Bay Area. An elegant, private play space for those that seek to explore their kinky sides in a safe and beautiful environment. Committed to serving the BDSM community by hosting monthly play parties and workshops in the space.
Los Angeles & SoCal Artists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For SoCal-based artists of all types who are also kinksters to share and exchange ideas, theory, promote interesting work and just find like minded generative artists to connect with.
Los Angeles AB, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For SoCal ABDLs – Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers.
Los Angeles – Always open, Always kinky, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those either in LA area or those that enjoy the LA way of life. Be open, be honest, and unlike many of the tits, be real. Local group about LA lifestyles and yes, some postings for local area gatherings as well.
Los Angeles Anonymous Encounters, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-30
For those sexy individuals/cpl/groups who want to set up anonymous encounters. For one on one meetings or group.
Los Angeles, Anonymous Outdoor Sex, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
1) You’ve always loved the idea of having sex outdoors; 2) You’ve often fantasized about that attractive stranger you pass…
Los Angeles Area Cougars, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-24
Gathering point for LA and the surrounding area’s cougars.
Los Angeles BDSM Intellectuals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For impassioned individuals in the BDSM community that thrive on intellectually stimulating conversation that is BDSM driven and thought provoking, not ego masquerading as intellect. Safe haven for analytical thinkers to exchange ideas on BDSM from an analytical perspective.
Los Angeles Black Doms and white subs/slaves, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Los Angeles Brothers in Dominance, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Los Angeles Brothers in Dominance, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Male-oriented discussion/support group catering to issues of concern and interest to Male Doms in the greater LA area. Monthly meeting.
Los Angeles brothers in submission, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Male-oriented discussion/support group catering to issues of concern and interest to male submissive/slaves in the greater LA area.
Los Angeles Classifieds, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Where people living in and around LA can post and answer classified ads. Meet people, sell legal goods, post parties and gatherings and much more.
Los Angeles Content Shoots, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-29
For those interested in doing Content trade shoots, from fetish to sex, to whatever.
Los Angeles Cuck & Bull Munch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-07
For male/female cuckold couples, HotWife couples, FemDom couples, female-led/centered couples and bulls/single dominant men to meet and greet and get to know each other in a casual, public, non-threatening real time, friendly atmosphere.
Los Angeles Deaf/HoH Kink Community, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinksters, fetishists and leather-people who are also deaf, hard-of-hearing, interpreters and signers (of any level) that want to get out and meet others, attend educational classes, meeting & events in the local LA Community.
Los Angeles Dog Slave Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Masters, Dominants and persons who enjoy being a dog slave human pet. Collar and leash BDSM fetish costumes. Open to straight, gay, bisexual, pansexual, men, women, couples, groups. All postings, personals and advertisements welcome.
Los Angeles Educational Events., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Please share Academy’s, Universities, Insights.
Los Angeles f slave/subs ISO Doms, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For LA/SoCal submissives and slave looking for a local dominant for Real Life only play, a Long Term Relationship or a mentor/teacher etc.
Los Angeles Female Dominants LA_FeDs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Female-oriented discussion/support group. Caters to issues of concern and interest to Female Dominants in the greater LA area. Female switches can attend while in Dominant Mode. Monthly meeting. Topics should be, but are not limited to, lifestyle related issues.
Los Angeles Fetish Fight Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who have realized how sexy fighting can be. Boxing, kickboxing, muay thai, wrestling, MMA, martial arts. Goal: To establish an event where it is possible to act out fight scenes
Los Angeles girls of Leather, see LAgoL (Los Angeles girls of Leather)
The Los Angeles GrUE, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
GrayDancer’s Ropetastic UnConference Extravaganza
Los Angeles Hypnosis Study and Practice, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-17
Dedicated to the real-life study and practice of hypnosis in a safe and comfortable manner.
Los Angeles, I’m Yours, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Social group primarily dedicated to LA County resident kinksters.
Los Angeles Jewish Munch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-04
aka Naughty Noshes. Everyone welcome to join this group and go to the Noshes; you don’t have to be Jewish.
Los Angeles Kinky and Poly Personals, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-04
Strictly for Poly and Kinky people strictly in LA or close surrounding areas searching to advertise for: Secondary Partner, Triads, Pets, Quads, D/s, Poly households, Play Partners, Open Relationships.
Los Angeles Leather Coalition (LALC), verified 2015-Mar-23
Non-profit 501(c)4 organization. Facilitates communications and mutual understanding among different segments of the leather-affiliated community, as well as promotes unity through cooperative endeavors that offer entertainment, education, social interaction, and community service.
Los Angeles littles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For littles and their mommies & daddies who are looking to connect and hopefully set local play dates.
Los Angeles M4M Classifieds, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For guys looking to meet other guys for fun, brotherhood and friendship in and around LA. For hot XXX fun or just regular activities, explore M4M fetishes, setup parties and gatherings, seek info and more. All guys – str8, bi, gay, trans, curious, unsure, confused or just plain horny welcome.
Los Angeles meet and greet, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Where LA locals can fraternize and plan local get-togethers and parties.
Los Angeles Models and Photographers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Gives LA models and Photographers a way to keep in touch, cast, and network.
Los Angeles Monogamy Group, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-08
For monogamists and the monogam-ish
Los Angeles & Orange County ANR/ABF, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-11
For anyone interested in ANR or ABF (or both!) in LA, OC or surrounding. Post discussions or personal ads.
Los Angeles Parties, Munches & Events, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
LA Local event posts.
Los Angeles Pets, Owners, and Beyond!, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-26
Facilitates dialogue and events on all types of anthropomorphic and/or zoomorphic modes of role-play. Open to all types of pets, critters, furries, primals, crawlers, four legged fiends and beyond.
Los Angeles Rope & Riggers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For LA rope Enthusiasts.
Los Angeles Sensual Leather Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Serene Sin events: Sensual (vanilla friendly) and Leather (community interest) events and education in the SoCal area. Dance – Theatre – Mixer – Spa Days – Tea Salons – Private Dungeon Parties & Tours – Workshops – Networking and more sex!
Los Angeles sisters in service, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Los Angeles sisters in service, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Female-oriented support/social/luncheon group catering to slave/subs and concerns in the greater LA area.
Los Angeles Spankos, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For LA Spanking purists who want to meet up for munches etc.
Los Angeles Strictly Personals, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-01
For people in LA who are looking to meet other people for any type of relationship. No services, meetings, wanted (or the like) ads.
Los Angeles subs and Switches (LA-sas), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Female/male discussion/support group catering to issues of concern and interest to female and male submissive/switches in greater LA area.
Los Angeles Women Who Like to Facesit, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For LA area women seeking submissive men to use for face sitting – or other pleasures.
Los Rios Community College District Kink, reviewed 2015-Apr-22
Social group for students and graduates of LRCCD looking to meet other like-minded peers to build contacts and friendships within our community college district.
Luscious at SF Citadel, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
A celebration of curves. Inclusive BDSM party. Welcomes people of all shapes and sizes, genders and orientations.
M3 – “Magic Mountain Munch”, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Open, public munch for Santa Clarita Valley and surrounding.
Mahogany Munch – Oakland, Ca., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Monthly munch group. Focus: Kinky People of color (Everyone that is not white), and people that love them. Pansexual, open to everyone.
Male Chastity Support Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For male chastity slaves that need key holders, and have questions and/or want to share experiences of being in Chastity. Will meet twice a month at Sanctuary LAX
Marin County Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Restricted to: Marin Co. folks (Novato, San Rafael, San Anselmo, Sausalito, Mill Valley, Belvedere-Tiburon, West Marin), and those who live, work, or visit there or nearby.
Marin And Sonoma Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinksters in Marin and Sonoma Counties, in the N. SF Bay Area.
Massage and Energywork Exchange Bay Area (Minus St8 Men), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
People interested in actually being friends and sharing an interest in giving and receiving massage. SF Bay Area. Queer or queer friendly.
MAsT: Alameda, verified 2015-Mar-23
MAsT: Alameda, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
MAsT: Alameda, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Real time discussion and support group for queer folks striving to live a Master/slave lifestyle. Serves SF East Bay Area.
MAsT: Eureka, verified 2015-Mar-23
MAsT:Eureka, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= Not meeting =
MAsT: Fresno, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-01
Pansexual MAsT chapter serving Central CA area. Attendance and membership open to anyone of legal age with an interest in the Master/slave dynamic and all power exchange relationships.
MAsT: Fresno MDHL-fs, verified 2015-Mar-23
MAsT: Fresno MDHL-fs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Support, education and discussion group for those interested in or active participants of the MDHL-fs (Male Dominant Heterosexual Leather female submissive) dynamic. Resource for those interested in the Master/slave, Dominant/submissive or Power Exchange dynamic.
MAsT: Greater Los Angeles, verified 2015-Mar-23
MAsT – GLA (Greater Los Angeles), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Education, support and resource group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle. Pansexual chapter. Welcomes all genders and orientations to our discussions.
MAsT: GSFBA (Greater San Francisco Bay Area, Calif, verified 2015-Mar-23
Pansexual support and discussion group for those interested in the Master-Mistress/slave or Dominant/submissive relationship. Persons of any gender and sexual orientation welcome.
MAsT-Huntington Beach, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Education, support and resource group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave-Dominant/submissive Lifestyle. Opportunity and forum for like-minded individuals for discussion of issues that concern Masters and slaves, share ideas and gain and/or share knowledge.
MAsT Inland Empire, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Education, support and resource group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle. Provides opportunity and forum for like-minded individuals to come together for discussion of issues that concern Masters and slaves, to share ideas and gain and/or share knowledge.
MAsT- Livermore Valley, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Pansexual support and discussion group for those interested in the Master-Mistress/slave, Dominant/submissive or Power Exchange relationship. Any gender and sexual orientation welcome.
MAsT: North Hollywood, verified 2015-Mar-23
MAsT: North Hollywood, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Pansexual support and discussion group for those interested in the Master-Mistress/slave, Dominant/submissive or Power Exchange relationship. Any gender and sexual orientation welcome.
MAsT: Orange County, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
NO LONGER MEETING? Safe place for all people, experienced or new, to come together to explore, share, and learn about Master/slave or Dominant/submissive relationships. All orientations, genders, and identifications welcome.
MAsT: Sacramento, verified 2015-Mar-23
MAsT: Sacramento, verified 2015-Mar-23
MAsT: Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Education, support, and resource group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave, Dominant/submissive, or other authority exchange lifestyles. Persons of any gender or sexual orientation are welcome. Monthly discussion group.
MAsT (Masters And slaves Together): San Diego, verified 2015-Mar-23
MAsT (Masters And slaves Together): San Diego, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For everyone – no matter gender identity, preferred play activity, role, or stage of personal growth. Works together to unite, recover, and transform; intends to have fun doing it.
MAsT: San Francisco, verified 2015-Mar-23
Support group for those interested in the Master/slave relationship. Serves mostly gay and lesbian community; all orientations welcome.
MAsT San Francisco, see San Francisco Open MAsT Meeting
MAsT Santa Clara County, verified 2015-Mar-23
MAsT Santa Clara County, verified 2015-Mar-23
MAsT Santa Clara County, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone interested in Master/slave dynamics. NOT restricted to those in an M/s relationship; open to anyone interested in this type of life and those with questions.
MAsT: Santa Rosa
MAsT: Santa Rosa, verified 2015-Mar-23
MAsT: Santa Rosa, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Education, support and resource group for individuals, of any gender or sexual orientation, involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle.
Master/slave Retreat, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For folks who have attended, or interested in attending, the Master/slave Retreat in NorCal.
Masturbation Parties – Vallejo, CA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Where people who love to masturbate can get together. Feel free to post information about parties. Masturbation-related discussion, pics and videos also welcome.
The Meet Market – A Kinky Auction Party, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-17
SF-area.
Merced Kinksters that will meet up, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-20
For like minded Kinksters in merced and near by interested in meeting up with others locally for play and sexy discussions.
Miss Cassie’s Rope Classes, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Casual with lots of hands-on tying and minimal lectures for rope bondage lovers and fetishists.
Mission Control SF, verified 2015-Mar-23
Mission Control SF, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
City’s socially conscious, artsy, intelligent, open-minded, open-hearted and sex-positive community. Hosts variety of underground events, parties and workshops in support of the creative and sexual evolution. Member supported and volunteer run organization.
Mission Viejo Kink Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all kinky people in and around Mission Viejo.
Modesto lifestylers hangout, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Trying to bring together those in the Lifestyle in Modesto and surrounding areas.
The Modesto Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Very social group and a great place to learn about kink and connect with like-minded members of the community.
Modesto Munch Ladies’ Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Subgroup (made up of not only subs) of the Modesto Munch group.
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Modesto Munchies, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Updates about scheduling will be posted here.
Monday Munch Madness, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Gathers monthly in greater IE to socialize and enjoy each other’s company. Plans other activities as time permits
Monterey Bay Ageplay, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
All ages group for people interested in Ageplay in the area. Welcomes ageplayers of all kinds, regardless of gender identity, sexual orientation, or whether or not they’re a sexual ageplayer.
Monterey Bay CA Area Master/slave D/s, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people to seek out Masters, Doms, slaves, subs and just fun kinky fetish playmates.
Monterey Bay Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Group distinctions: Inclusiveness and shared ownership by all. No one person or people are appointed leaders. Find events near you here or create your own event and advertise it. Monterey Bay Peninsula Pacific Grove PG Carmel Seaside Salinas Watsonville Gilroy Capitola Santa Cruz
Monterey Bay Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Local Monterey Bay and Santa Cruz munch group. In existence for many years. Offers classes, workshops, discussion groups, movie nights, etc. Majority of members are mature, responsible folks who exhibit good manners, common sense, have a strong grip on reality, and respectful of others.
Monterey Peninsula TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Ages 18-39. Not just a munch. Discussion forum to set up social events and assist each other
Ms San Francisco Leather, verified 2015-Mar-23
Ms San Francisco Leather, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Mission: Create and maintain an annual contest/event that celebrates our diverse and dynamic Greater SF Bay Area leather/kink/fetish community, and raises money to support the work of relatively small non-profit organizations. Exemplifies honor, service and community commitment.
Munch California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Devoted to all munches of any area.
MY (Marysville; Yuba city) munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
MY (Marysville-Yuba city) munch, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
For local Marysville, Yuba City area people to get together for munches and get to know people in the area.
Mystique, verified 2015-Mar-23
Mystique, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
SF’s premier event for Dominant Women
Naked Girls Reading, verified 2015-Mar-23
Naked Girls Reading – San Francisco, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
International phenomena founded and proliferated by the Burlesque Superstar, Michelle L’Amour (Chicago).
Naked Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinky people who like to hang out naked in the Santa Cruz area.
Napa County Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinksters in Napa County. Hopefully, this will be a step towards building some community among the kinksters in the Napa Valley.
Napa County Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinksters in and around Napa Co., including American Canyon, Calistoga, Napa, Saint Helena, Yountville, and throughout the N.Bay, including Fairfield, Sonoma, Vacaville and Vallejo
N. California Rideshare, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
This might work well in the Kink/BDSM community.
NCBDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Not group or venue specific. National events, regional events.
N.C. San Diego Bareback Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Forum, meeting place for bareback sex aficionados in SD, emphasis on North Co. To be a non-judgmental place to discuss and explore our passion, as well as facilitate meeting up with other like-minded people.
N.E.S., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people who consider themselves to be nerdy, eccentric and/or sexy, or all of the above. A social group as well as a play group.
Nevada County Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Creating a safe haven in our area for those with non-mainstream interests.
New/Novice Submissive Women in San Diego, California, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-20
Safe place for all submissive women in SD area codes 619, 858 and 760 to meet and share, mentor, learn and enjoy what the local BDSM community has to offer new subs without feeling threatened or constantly hit on. No Doms/Dommes allowed.
The NEW Pasadena Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
All-inclusive, pansexual BDSM group. Welcomes all in or curious about the lifestyle for a monthly social gathering. Meet and socialize in a neutral and very safe and supportive setting. Join the laughter and the freedom to express yourself and grow.
NNV/NCA-TOG (Northern Nevada & Northern California-The Older Generation), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Purpose: Create an environment to meet, socialize, play, share knowledge and experience, and continue with our lifelong learning. Dedicated to having fun, always. Designed for people age 40+. Time in the lifestyle is unimportant as newcomers and the seasoned are respected equally.
NorCA BBW’s, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all those who admire BBW and SSBBWs along with those who are of size, also BHM (Big Handsome Men). Network, socialize and connect with those in NorCA interested in connecting with like-minded folks to create a sense of community
NORCAL Bisexual Swingers Association, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Committed to NSA fun for members of the bisexual community in Northern CA. Does not discriminate based on size, gender, marital status (your karma is your own), sexual preference or gender identity. CrossDressers, TV and TS folks welcome and encouraged.
Nor Cal Casual Encounters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those not having their needs met or looking to explore more about their sexual desires within Northern CA. Those looking for occasional or one-time-only hookups should join.
NorCal CBT Fun, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who enjoy giving or receiving, or interested in, CBT. Share thoughts, ideas and techniques and have fun.
NORCAL Events: Bay Area/Santa Cruz, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-18
For posting parties, classes and munches to keep folks up to date on what’s going on.
NorCal Gamers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Discuss games of choice (video games, board games, paintball, card games, RP games – D&D or Vampire, LARP, SCA, etc) and possibly create groups of kinksters from the area to get together and have Munch/gaming sessions with.
NorCal Rope Bombing, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Goals: Be a good resource for info on guerrilla rope in general; specifically address concerns of operating in our region; be an organizational tool for local rope enthusiasts to meet, plan rope adventures together, and share photos and stories of working with rope in the wild.
NorCal Sex Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Made for horny people in NorCal to post sex wanted ads and to meet others to play with.
Norcal Sissy Maids, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Primary function: Start a network of owned sissy maids (CD or TV) and their Mistresses, and unowned sissy “girls” who want to serve on regular basis at tea parties, house parties and possibly find permanent arrangements through the network.
Nor Cal StrapOn Play, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
For anyone in Nor Cal looking to peg or be pegged.
North Bay BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people living in Northern SF Bay Area (Marin, Sonoma, and Napa counties–and those who love us) to network and to talk about whatever.
North Bay Classifieds – Northern CA., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For posting classified ads in Marin, Sonoma, Napa, Solano and Lake Counties. Post ads for personals, roommates, for sale items (like kinky toys and play equipment), etc.
North Bay Rope Bite, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who love, like or curious about rope. If you tie, want to learn to tie and rig, enjoy being tied up, or have some other rope based enjoyment.
North Bay Women in BDSM weeknight Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Women’s discussion group in the North Bay.
North County San Diego Encinitas Oceanside Carlsbad Vista San Marcos Escondido Rancho Bernardo Rancho Penasquitos Fallbrook Poway Sabre Springs Carmel Mountain Temecula Bonsall Solana Beach, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Bulletin Board for those in the BDSM LifeStyle living in North SD areas. Posted events for North Co. appear here regularly.
North San Diego, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Would love to get to know you! Was “TemeculaHemetEscondidoSanMarcosPerrisOceansideVista (THE SM POV)
Northern ca polyamorous, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For like-minded kinksters who enjoy the lifestyle or maybe somewhat curious about it.
Northern CA/SF Bay area Car Pools #carpool #rideshare, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Post ride requests, offers, road trip, and carpool organization threads here.
Northern Ca. Sissies who crave ownership by Doms, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Sissies who crave to be accepted as submissives or slaves by strict Dominant Males.
Northern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For FetLife members from NorCal of all kink and fetish backgrounds and curiosities to congregate and socialize.
Northern California & Bay Area Fat Pig Market, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Where the fattest, nastiest, most masochistic pigs in the Northern CA Bay Area, and men who love to own, use and abuse them, can come to meet, hang out and hook up.
Northern California BDSM Events, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
List or calendar any events that might interest anyone in the BDSM community wishing for the company of like minds; anywhere north of LA area up to the Oregon border.
Northern California Classifieds (within 2 hours of SF only), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For classifieds. Please don’t post general events announcements here.
Northern California Contact, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Kinksters in NorCal can keep in Contact with each other.
Northern California Domina/Bull/sissycuck Network, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Restricted to: Dominant Women, cuckolds, sissies, crossdressers, Service Tops, Bulls.
Northern California Fisting, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone in NorCal that loves to fist or be fisted.
Northern California Gay & Trans Friendly Gangbangs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone who wants to partake or run area gay or trans-friendly gang bang events.
Northern California Kinky Market & How To, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For area kinksters to offer up for sale, trade, or free, those special items that the perverts, submissives, Dom(Mes), and others who exist between labels might like to offer. Restricted to: Selling, trade, or buying kinky, fetish or sex toy items and creating personal Dens of Perversion!
Northern California Rubber/Latex Enthusiasts, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For “rubberists” — people who adore rubber/latex fetishwear. Discuss preferences, announce rubber-related events, share links to special sales on latex fetishwear and offer latex fetishwear care tips.
Northern California Singles Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people in NorCal (Sacramento and up) to find each other, or just chat about the single life.
Northern California Snow Sports, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people living in NorCal and Reno area (Lake Tahoe, Truckee, Reno, Sacramento, SF and everywhere in between) who enjoy skiing and snowboarding. Post rides, find friends to ride with and maybe play with! Every level of rider from beginners to advanced!
Northern California Trans Partners and Family Support Group, Facebook, verified 2015-Mar-23
Northern California Trans Partners and Family Support Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Northern California Trans Partners and Family Support Group, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Specifically centered around physical support group in San Jose. Anyone with a trans spouse, partner (kinky OR vanilla), family member, etc who needs a safe community welcome to join, regardless of geography.
Northern California transgender dating group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To place ads to date other people. Not a discussion group
Northern Nevada and Northern California LTRs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those seeking a loving long-term relationship, and live in Northern NV or northern CA or travel to the area with real frequency.
Northern Nevada/California Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
All welcome from just slightly kinky to the folks deeply involved in just about all aspects of the lifestyle. Does not restrict by age or affiliation. Get together and talk, arrange events, and trade ideas.
Northern Nevada Free Lifestyles, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Members only, non-profit, pansexual, adult (18+) ONLY group open to Northern NV and surrounding cities meeting for monthly munches and other events
Northwest Leather Celebration, verified 2015-Mar-23
Northwest Leather Celebration (produced by smOdyssey, Inc.), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
NWLC Attendees, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Silicon Valley. Home of annual NW regional Master/slave contest. Relaxing socials, enlightening educational seminars with a focus on building healthy BDSM relationships and communities, an indoor vendor fair and much more! Gathering Place for all the Leather Tribes!
Nox (Gothic Wet Munch), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Mountain View. Wants to open our arms and home to fellow wicked, black-clad residents and have Nox become a wet munch gathering for not only our gothic regulars but our BDSM locals as well.
Nude hiking southern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Safe places to hike nude in the area.
OC Cuddle Munch & Parties, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-14
For those interested in platonic (i.e. non-sexual) cuddling.
OC Foodie Munch, verified 2015-Mar-23
OC Foodie Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Like-minded kinksters who meet once a month to explore great little restaurants in OC area.
OC Gun Play, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Kinky gun owners in, or near, OC.
OC Kinbaku and Shibari, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who love the Japanese rope bondage in all its naughty glory. For events, knowledge, riggers, bottoms and all things associated.
Oc Personal Ads, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Specifically for any ads wanting to sell stuff wanting, to get together for a dinner/group/party, anything.
OC Submissive Journey, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Huntington Beach. Pansexual group for submissives, slaves and bottoms in and around OC. Comfortable place to share and learn from each other. Monthly meetings to explore thoughts and feelings as we journey through the peaks and valleys.
OCKW– OC Kinky Women Who Like Women – Bi/Bi-curious/H-flexible (OC), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
North OC-based. For people who identify as women, and also identify as bisexual, heteroflexible, homoflexible, bi-curious, pansexual, queer, bi-friendly lesbians & straight women are also welcome. For single women or women in relationships and women in power exchange relationships.
OPEN SF, verified 2015-Mar-23
OPEN SF, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Open Poly or Ethically Non-Monogamous San Francisco Conference. Workshops! Speakers! Parties! Dating! Seminars! Socializing! Meet ‘n Greet n Munch ‘n Hug! Vendors!
Open: The South Bay and Peninsula Open Relationship Group, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-01
We define Open as any practice that involves — or a curiosity in — consensual non-monogamous relationships.
OPP (Our Play Place), FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-05
Complement to local Visalia group. Restricted to: Local members and visiting guests with prior approval for attendance at any functions hosted.
Orange Coast Leather Assembly, verified 2015-Mar-23
Orange Coast Leather Assembly, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Education and outreach organization for the Leather, S/M and Fetish community. Open to adults age 18+, all genders and sexual orientations, from absolute novice to skilled experts, who socialize and learn from each other.
Orange County BBWs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For beautiful BBW’s and men & women that love them.
The Orange County California Kinky klub, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who are not only looking for some chat time but for those looking for an actual group to join up with or maybe you’re looking for a party.
Orange County Classifieds, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For OC men and women, for NSA, FWB, ongoing, relationship or more.
Orange County Erotic Hypnotic Munch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-15
Social group. Seeks to introduce and guide those interested in hypnosis to the ethical and safe practices of hypnosis, to educate any with a real interest in learning about hypnosis from respected community members. Concerned with honest portrayal of the capabilities of hypnosis.
Orange County Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone looking to explore their sexual nature, learn or share experience, or just meet up for some fun.
Orange County Models and Producers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For networking between and among producers and models in OC.
Orange County Munch, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
For OC folks with like-minded interest in BDSM to meet & get to know one another.
Orange County non-BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinksters in and around OC to discuss kinks, fetishes and lifestyles outside the realm of bondage/domination and sadomasochism.
Orange County Pagans, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Safe space for kinksters of alternative beliefs in and around OC (Anaheim, Santa Ana, Orange, Irvine, Huntington Beach, Garden Grove, Fullerton, Costa Mesa, Laguna Hills, Aliso Viejo, Mission Viejo, Rancho Santa Margarita, San Clemente).
Orange County Piss Players, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-02
Purpose: Help people living in Orange County with a passion for watersports, piss play, golden showers, etc. connect with each other and indulge their fetish.
Orange County Social, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Orange County Social, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
For like-minded people to gather, see old friends and make new ones. Vanilla venue where people come together to socialize, exchange ideas and have a nice meal.
Orange County Spankos, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For OC locals who want to make friends with other locals who enjoy the pleasures of receiving and/or giving spankings.
Orange County Unemployed Networking Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Advertise for help wanted or will work for a life of slavery! Even trading goods for work might help. Any tips for surviving unemployment in CA is welcome as well.
Overcoming Health Issues in the D/s dynamic (meet up group), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone in the BDSM lifestyle that has to deal with health or physical issues. Goal: To grow in a BDSM relationship and or community while dealing with any sort of debilitating issues. Will be talking about tools to use to enhance the dynamic of a relationship on the good and bad days.
Pacific Coast Power Exchange Contest, verified 2015-Mar-23
Pacific Coast Power Exchange Contest, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
CA (both Northern and Southern)-NV-OR-WA. Feeder contest to the International Power Exchange Contest at Beyond Leather in Florida. Open to anyone with a power dynamic relationship; includes couples, triads, and families who have a power dynamic.
Pacific NorthWest BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Post local events, discuss local issues, and generally just hang out.
Pacific Northwest Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For everyone in or lovers of the PNW who would like to reach out and meet other area kinksters.
PacificNorthWest Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For personal ads targeted to PNW region of US (N. CA-ID-OR-WA). For individuals looking for anything from a one-time play (or demo) partner to a full-time life mate.
Pacific Northwest Sex Club Review Board, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
BC-N CA-ID-MT-OR-WA. Discuss, opinions, reviews of places where open sexuality is practiced and people’s kinks are encouraged and respected. Adult Theaters, Bath Houses, Dungeons, Events, Fetish Night Clubs/Fetnights, Glory Holes/Porn Store Booths, House/Hotel Parties, Sex Clubs/Swinger’s Bars
PACK (People As Canine Kinksters) Fresno, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-04
Providing adults in the local puppy community with a supportive environment to meet and interact.
Paddlers of South California (PSC), see PSC (Paddlers of South California)
Palm Springs and Desert Valley Munch Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Get to know local FetLifers, find out about the next munch or the occasional Private Party.
Palm Springs Leather Order of the Desert, verified 2015-Mar-23
Pansexual organization of like-minded individuals pursuing an interest in the Leather/SM/Fetish lifestyle, with an interest in fundraising for the local community.
Palm Springs Sub Support Group, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-14
For Education; for subs, slaves and like-minded individuals to come together in a public setting to discuss topics they wish to grow and learn in.
Palo Alto / Sunnyvale Munch, verified 2015-Mar-23
Weekly. Sunnyvale.
Pantyhose and Hot Fashion play / Bay Area CA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who share a fetish for Pantyhose, creative sexual fashion and the fantasies when dressed in them.
ParadiseSoCal, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Completely kick-ass women only party held monthly in one of the largest and most beautiful dungeons in the greater LA area.
Party Time Gloryhole, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people who visit the adult book store Party Time in San Jose.
Pasadena Daytime Players, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those that play during the daytime in the Pasadena area.
Pasadena Munch Bunch, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
All welcome to talk about the lifestyle, to meet others, and to play, if they are so inclined.
Pasadena Roses & Thorns Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
BDSM Munch group for the Pasadena area. All inclusive BDSM group. Get to know your fellow kinksters, join the laughter and the freedom to express yourself and grow.
Paso Robles Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Including, not limited to: Arroyo Grande, Atascadero, Avila Beach, Bradley, Cambria, Cayucos, Creston, Grover Beach, Lompoc, Los Osos, Morro Bay, Nipomo, Oceano, Paso Robles, Pismo Beach, San Luis Obispo, San Miguel, San Simeon, Santa Barbara, Santa Margarita, Santa Maria, Shandon, Templeton.
Phoenix Rising, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-07
Dedicated to reinstating the ideals and values of (MT) back into the TGIF group.
Pirates in California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Pirates of all genders; wenches of all genders
The Place Next Door, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= CLOSED =
PNW Crossdresser Gang Bang Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Arrange parties, swap stories, and meet others for sexy hook-ups. Seattle, Portland, NorCal and more.
PNW Hypnosis, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Live in or visit PNW? Interested in erotic hypnosis, NLP, mind control, conditioning, trance, or related subjects? ID-OR-WA-BC-N. CA
Poly in LA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For LA-based poly couple/men/women to introduce themselves and plan area group meetups, social events and support groups.
Poly Ventura County, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Meeting place for Poly people to meet, chat, discuss, and be themselves. Newbies welcome.
Positively Kinky in the Bay Area, CA – (HSV/Herpes Support), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For HSV+ people living in the SF Bay Area looking for play partners, connections, and support. Also welcomes those HSV-. To support, ask questions, and/or who are open to playing with us in a safe kinky positive way.
Power Exchange, verified 2015-Mar-23
Power Exchange Pansexual playspace home of the SEX SQUAD, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Pansexual play space in Las Vegas and back in SF!
The Practical Female Dominant, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Discussion forum for “The Practical Female Dominant” classes, held in Santa Rosa. Classes are ongoing and interactive allowing women to socialize, network and support each other while learning techniques and about the underlying psychology of kink.
Primeval, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-20
Bay Area party. Focuses on rough play without the toys.
P.S. San Diego, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
SD’s newest and largest dungeon, with over 4,800 sq.ft. to shop, mingle, and play
PSC: Paddlers of Southern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
PSC: Paddlers of Southern California, Google, verified 2015-Mar-23
Active social group; monthly munch. Discussion social open to adults interested in the D/s, S&M, and BD lifestyle. All types of BDSM discussions welcomed. No playing allowed at this event.
Puppy Play in Orange County and LA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Forum so maybe we can start a munch in the area. Riverside/Ventura/San Diego critters are also more than welcome to attend.
Pure Pleasure Shop, verified 2015-Mar-23
Pure Pleasure Shop, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Santa Cruz. Mission: Provide a comfortable place to shop for sex toys, as well as access resources to enhance sexual pleasure and well-being. Offers many classes and events on a large range of subjects.
PURGATORY Fresno, Facebook, verified 2015-Mar-23
PURGATORY Fresno, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Fresno’s Only BDSM/Fetish club. All genders, races and orientations welcome.
Queer San Francisco and Bay Area, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For dykes, fags, trannies, butches, femmes, FtMs, MtFs, bi-dykes, bois, grrrls, tranny-fags, genderqueers etc. of SF and surrounding Bay Area.
Radical and Wicked Women (RAWW), see LA-RAWW
Red Dragons BDSM Bikers Riding Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
National motorcycle riding club for Leather, BDSM, M/s and Kink community based out of Southern CA. Purpose: Bring together people to enjoy freedom of motorcycle riding, develop friendships and support community through service, charitable fundraising events, parties, classes & volunteerism.
Redding CA Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Specifically focused on social networking, and building community, munches, and play parties in the Chico / Oroville / Redding area.
Renegades, verified 2015-Mar-23
The Renegades, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
San Jose. Gay bar, welcoming of kinksters of all sexualities. Where kinksters come together to socialize, relax with a beverage or a cigar and get into a little trouble by getting tied to a bar stool, flogging a friend or learning a new skill.
River City Slosh, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Take off of the Sacramento Slosh. Celebrating just being the Kinksters we are and weren’t really able to come downtown or mid-town to have a title bit of fun, drinking and chatting up a storm about nothing!
Riverside ca couples and subs looking for longterm realionship with couples in our area, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Talk, meet friends, help each other learn, and all of us to grow
ROMP San Diego, verified 2015-Mar-23
ROMP San Diego, Facebook, verified 2015-Mar-23
ROMP San Diego, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Full weekend of motorcycles and hot leather action in the woods of Eastern SD County.
Rope and Coffee, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Sacramento. Casual event dedicated to the art of rope bondage. Offers books and seasoned rope tops so that you can learn how to do that pretty rope work.
Rope Bite East Bay, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Monthly rope skill share and practice session in SF East Bay area (Oakland/Berkeley)
Rope Bite in the O.C. (Orange County CA), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
CommUNITY for the rope bondage community. Accepting of all gender and sexual identifications.
Rope Bite Inland Empire, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Pansexual social event centered around rope-based bondage, open to anyone age 18+, open-minded and looking to learn about all aspects of rope art in a non-threatening environment with like-minded people and great food.
Rope Bite Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Help all people interested in rope bondage and worldwide connect with others. Open to all forms of rope bondage.
Rope Bite San Francisco, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Monthly. Pansexual social event centered around rope-based bondage. Open to anyone over 18.
Rope Dojo at the Lair de Sade, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
LA. For learning more, from novice to advanced. Supporting classes for modern Shibari, the classic art of kinbaku. Creating an atmosphere for safe knowledge and expertise. Development for future classes in Hojojutsu.
The Rope Lover, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-19
For rope enthusiasts, riggers and bunnies in the SF, East Bay, and South Bay areas. Focus: To establish a central location for all things rope. Find information on upcoming classes, and events.
R.O.P.E.S. (Rope Oriented Play Empire Social), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Redlands. Social event geared towards hands-on practice and socialization. Share things you’ve learned, listen in on others and what they’ve learned, use the space and practice things you’ve learned, are learning or just don’t have the opportunity elsewhere to practice.
Roseville Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those living in the northern part of the Sacramento Metropolitan area. Citrus Heights, Roseville, Rocklin, etc. Post tasteful personal ads or invitations to local gatherings.
Rubber Doll Lovers in Southern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Men or women who enjoy the transformation and freedom of their alter ego.
Sac Cinephiles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Sacramento-area movie-lovers. Everything from silent films to IMAX, indie films to summer blockbusters. Action, comedy, drama, horror, animation. Plans on organizing theater outings as well as home events.
SacDOMinion, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-31
Mission: To celebrate the Male Dominant & female submissive dynamic in the Sacramento area. Discussions, social gatherings, activities and themed parties.
Sacramento Area Advice Line, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Ask questions, get information and to obtain advice from others in the community.
Sacramento Area Animal Menagerie (SAAM), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Goal: To foster a local animal play community for networking, support, events, discussion, education, and demystifying and destigmatizing what we do as human animal players. All creatures & handlers welcome to join, from the kitties and the puppies to the dragons and the amalgamations
Sacramento Area BBW and their enthusiasts, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
We are BBW and PROUD to be! We know people of all shapes and sizes love us because of the BBW title we embrace.
Sacramento Area BBWs and Admirers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Social group for BBWs and their admirers.
Sacramento Area BDSM non Gateway Folks, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who have no desire to become members of the current local club as it currently operates.
Sacramento Area Dirty,Nerdy,and CURVY!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Friendly place to hang your whip, garter, leash, or hat…Whatever makes you happy. BBW/BHM friendly. Dirty, nerdy and curvy individuals. Accepts everyone as they are without judgement.
the (Sacramento area) little fetness group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Sacramento people (some of them identify as littles) to do group exercise-type activities on a semi-regular basis.
Sacramento Area Kinky Geeks, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Tabletop gaming, science, science fiction, writing, fandom, fantasy, history, Renaissance or Pirate Faires, SCA, RPGs (role-playing games, not rocket-propelled grenades!), fandom, comics, card games – or almost anything else that falls under geekery, or a playful, yet deviant, intellect
Sacramento Area Parenting Off the Beaten Track, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Specifically for parents who are looking to balance their everyday lives that include their children with the kink community, in a non-kink environment.
Sacramento Area Peer Rope, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For rope lovers in Sacramento and surrounding areas. Purpose: Learning, sharing knowledge, and becoming better at rope bondage.
Sacramento Area Poly People, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Not a personals group. Here to help those who need it, and find others to hang out with. Sacramento, Woodland, Davis, Stockton, Vacaville, Fairfield, Roseville, Elk Grove, etc.
Sacramento Area Professionals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Informational hub, referral network, and support system for kink friendly business members of Sacramento area whose services and products (can) serve or benefit the greater fetish community. Members can network, share resources, ask questions, get advice, commune, organize and grow.
Sacramento Area – Sunday Afternoon Hangout, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= INACTIVE? = Elk Grove.
Sacramento Bastion, Meetup, verified 2015-Jul-06
Playspace closed. Focus on outreach and education.
Sacramento BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those interested in BDSM in the Sacramento area, discuss local issues and meet local people.
Sacramento Bisexual personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For bisexual males and females in Sacramento, looking for others to have fun and good conversations, serious about meeting people.
Sacramento Cuckolds, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those in the Sacramento area who enjoy or are interested in the cuckolding lifestyle. Whether you are a couple or a single, looking for others who enjoy cucking, feel free to join and meet others with similar interests. Ads are encouraged. Purpose: To meet others and have fun.
Sacramento Dominant Support Group, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-20
For those who identify as dominant, master, owner, or similar “in charge” title. An open group; welcomes those new to this dynamic, those new to acknowledging their dominance, of any gender or gender orientation are welcome.
Sacramento Domme Support Group, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-21
For those who identify themselves as a Female Domme/Switch. For support without any judgement, being ridiculed, or feel intimidated. Goal: Provide the enrichment, knowledge, & support for the Female Identified Dominants.
Sacramento Dominant Women, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For female tops, dominants, mistresses, switches and those who adore them.
Sacramento Fetish Videos, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-26
For people interested in the creation of fetish film and photography.
Sacramento GB Revelry, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-19
A group of clean, attractive men to fulfill the wildest desires of fun, curious, local ladies. Let us know what your thoughts and hopes are and we’ll handle the rest.
Sacramento Kennel, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For enthusiasts and novices alike in the field of “puppy play” who live in the Greater Sacramento Area.
Sacramento Kink Klassifieds, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To sell, buy or trade something, rent or find a room/apartment, find a lover/friend/play partner/stare off contest buddy or anything else classified-y.
Sacramento Kinky Artists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinky artists of all kinds. (Visual, Literary, Musical, Bondage, Erotic, etc.) Provides a place to connect so people can work together to make art. You may also share your work here for constructive critiques.
Sacramento Kinky Camping, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
People getting together to enjoy kinky camping.
Sacramento Kinky Geeks, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For the geeks of the Sacramento area. Whether interests are comics, gaming, anime, or obscure 70’s cartoons, there’s a place for you here. Plan events and talk about geeky interests.
Sacramento LeatherDykes, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Restricted to women who love women and live as or would like to learn how to live as leatherdykes.
Sacramento Littles, Brats, and Ageplayers, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-12
For people into the Little/Big dynamic, Baby/Mommy/Daddy dynamic and/or ageplaying. Safe place for connecting, having meet ups, events and chatting with like-minded people. Welcomes newcomers, curious.
Sacramento Male Subs for Dominant Women, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For submissive males in the Sacramento area and the Dominant women who like them.
Sacramento Mixer, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Seeks to create an inclusive and friendly environment for Sactown folks looking to make connections. Whether you identify as single, monogamous or non-monogamous, whether you are looking for a play partner or a life partner.
Sacramento Open Relationship/Polyamory Symposium Forum, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those in consensual, multi-partner relationships (or those curious about the concept) to discuss relationship issues of all stripes, meet others of like mind, and to announce and promote related events.
Sacramento panty boys, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all men and boys that like to wear panties
Sacramento Singles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
A good way to come into the scene single is to meet people, and socialize. Organize, band together, and cause troubles. Whether you’re open, poly, dating, or single – you’re welcome here.
The Sacramento Slosh, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Monthly munch, with an optional drink or five.
Sacramento Snugglerz!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Good ol’ fashioned movies and snugglez.
Sacramento Spankers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For spankers and spankees in the greater Sacramento area. Intent: Promote local munches and possibly spanking parties. Emphasizes the pure spanko approach rather than the other BDSM aspects of FetLife.
Sacramento Stone Soup Brigade, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Interact, plan, and check in for details about Stone Soup events.
Sacramento Swingers, Cuckolds & Play Partners, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who enjoy or are interested in swinging, cuckolding, and finding play partners. Recommended that you either are partnered, or you’re looking for people who are partnered.
Sacramento TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Geared towards helping and encouraging those ages 18-35 with social issues that can be present in this lifestyle.
Sacramento to San Fran Pups to Ponies and Handlers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For animal role play people and handlers in SF and Sacramento surrounding areas to gather and unite. Have discussions and plan get-togethers.
Sacramento Valley LeatherCorps, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Non-profit group of queer (GLBT) men and women dedicated to educating people on Leather, BDSM, and Safer Sex Since 1997! Queer (GLBT) men and women dedicated to the accurate portrayal of the Leather & BDSM communities.
Sacramento We Stand, FetLife, verified 2015-Jul-05
I Stand Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2015-Jul-05
Purpose: sharing ideas, keeping open communication flowing, a sounding board for those with ideas or concerns. Mission: Further equal treatment and legal and social validity of the Kink Community and other Alternative Lifestyles through education of the public, law enforcement, and politicians.
Safeword, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
All inclusive, kink oriented 12-step support group/meeting held at SF Citadel.
Salinas Roundtable, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-20
Discussion group for locals, focused on meeting up to talk about lifestyle topics.
SAN Bootblacks, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
SD. For educating and mentoring up and coming bootblacks or gathering to socials, functions, and fundraisers where bootblacks may be needed.
San Diego, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Promotions of SD kink-related websites, organizations, events, etc. welcome.
San Diego Barter, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Trade items or services, arrange carpools, etc. Bartering only. Absolutely NO solicitation or sex for money. Keep it legal, respectful, fun and positive.
San Diego BDSM, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Allows exchange of personals and personal thoughts, questions, and event announcements by SD people in or interested in the BDSM lifestyle.
San Diego Bigs & Littles, verified 2015-Mar-23
San Diego Bigs & Littles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Group and munch for any and all age players in or near the SD area.
San Diego Black’s Beach Lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people to meet one another and arrange outings to Black’s Beach (individually or groups). Perhaps arrange other nudist / kink events away from the beach too.
San Diego Bukkake bi guys, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
All bi guys and girls in SD area who like and/or interested in bukkakes and cum fetishes are welcome.
San Diego Bukkake Whore, Fetlife, reviewed 2015-Jul-26
For men who would like to participate in bukkake events.
San Diego, California DIAPERS ABDL. Diaper Lover Adult Baby, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
ABDLs in SD.
San Diego Classifieds and Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Seeking out that perfect little pain slut? The Dom that makes you fall to your knees? or simply a new flogger or apartment?
San Diego Community, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-31
For any topics except for Personals and Classifieds. Topics do not have to be about kinky things.
San Diego Consensual Adult Activities Lending Library, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-13
A portable lending library with real books. Aim: To promote and encourage BDSM/alternative lifestyle education through reading.
San Diego Cosplay, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone into cosplay, dress up, uniforms, costumes, role play and anything related. Chat, share costuming tips, sell/buy/trade/commission stuff, pimp your event/party), link profile pics
San Diego Dualities, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For switches, supporters and those curious about switching or involving themselves with people that switch.
San Diego FemDom, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For FemDoms (and submissives and slaves who enjoy the energy of a room full of FemDoms, or the individual company of a FemDom) of SD County.
San Diego FetFoodies, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Primary purpose: Explore what SD Co. has to offer in terms of dining and learn a little about the history of this city through food. Yummy food, a few cooking classes, and lots of laughs.
San Diego Fetish Social Events, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all into BDSM Dom/Subs Latex Leather Rubber Cyber Industrial-Goth-Dark-Fetish attire encouraged
San Diego Hikers/Walkers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Meet for some regular outdoor fun and enjoying nature, whether to get/stay in shape or just want to try some more active socializing with kinky friends.
San Diego Hypnosis, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those into hypnosis or would like to know more. Share ideas, methods, experiences, while meeting others in the area.
San Diego Kinkster Walkers!!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Meets weekly. Everyone and anyone welcome. All levels of walkers welcome, walk at your own pace. Mostly a beginners group.
San Diego Ladies Potluck Playlab, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Monthly. Must currently identify as female to participate. A subject or topic will be predetermined before the play lab. All ladies will bring what they have that is associated with the topic to share.
San Diego Leather/BDSM Riders, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Leather/BDSM/Kink/Fetish men and women who like to ride. Not a formal club. Just a great way for riders to have some organized fun.
San Diego League of Gentlemen, verified 2015-Mar-23
Brotherhood working together to develop a deeper understanding of ourselves & others. Provides members and guests with social, recreational & educational activities encouraging personal growth. Events encompass a wide variety of styles and pleasures.
San Diego Leather/BDSM Women, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Start a discussion, announce or cross post an event, ask a question, share your wisdom and journey, whine, be menopausal, join in collective PMS, connect, bond, chat, experience, lurk, offer ideas, provide feedback, feel safe, and just exalt in being a kinky woman.
San Diego Leathermen’s Events, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Private list for SoCal-based gay leather men. News about upcoming events and other leathermen’s information.
San Diego Leather Pride, verified 2015-Mar-23
San Diego Leather Pride, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For finding out more about SD Leather Pride.
San Diego Leather Realm Volunteer Forum, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
One of America’s largest outdoor venues for Leather/BDSM education and information.
San Diego LifeStyle BD-Ds-SM Social, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
= INACTIVE =
San Diego North BD-SM Munch Social, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Great event for BDSM LifeStylers and their peers to socialize regularly in a warm and welcoming atmosphere.
San Diego Northeast County: Poway, RB,ScrippsRanch,Miramar,RanchoPena, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those that live further away from the 5 freeway and closer to the 15 freeway in NE SD. Regular monthly social.
San Diego Personals and Classifieds, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Place post wanted ads for the San Diego area. Buying, selling, seeking.
San Diego Petting Zoo, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all you San Diegan Puppies, Ponies, Kitties and (insert other animals here) and those who love them
San Diego Poly, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Hosts monthly discussion groups and socials. Local collaborative offers resources to all poly communities, including the poly-curious and poly-friendly. All welcome.
San Diego Random Chat, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For SD locals to chat about random things. Maybe explore mutual interests and make some new local friends.
San Diego Rope Enthusiasts, FetLife, verified 2015-Aug-30
= NO LONGER MEETING = Committed to safety, safety education, a focused, intellectual approach to Kinbaku. Dedicated to fostering positive, respectful growth in our members, and consistently providing a practice space for serious students and beginners alike.
San Diego Sissy, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Support group for sissies and people that love them.
San Diego TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Mission: To create a safer, consent driven kink environment specifically for young adults where they will feel welcome, respected & accepted.
San Fernando Valley Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
San Fernando Valley Munch/Threshold Munch, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Wonderful opportunity to get together with like-minded people (aka ‘pervs’) in a comfortable and relaxed setting. Great place to catch up with old friends, and/or meet lots of new people. Monthly.
San Francisco, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For open-ended discussion of all things related to kink, fetish, and sex-positive culture in the SF Bay Area.
San Francisco area Fet Nights(and days) – Announce/RSVP, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Announce/discuss events, parties, classes etc. in the SF Bay area.
San Francisco Bay Area Cougars and ones who love them, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For older women who like to be with younger men or women for whatever reason as well as for those who love to be around older women.
San Francisco Bay Area Erotic Hypnosis, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Bay Area’s preeminent hypnofetish organization. Meets monthly. Members also organize classes, events, and meetups. Includes many experienced and knowledgeable hypnotists and subjects, some with formal credentials, decades of experience & strong connections
San Francisco Bay Area Kink Climbers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For area kinksters interested in rock climbing. Climbers of all experience levels are welcome, including those with no experience at all.
San Francisco Bay Area Kinky Fitness Cooking, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Let’s get together in and near The City and cook low-fat, healthy meals.
San Francisco/Bay Area Kinky Jews, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Jews and friends living in or visiting the SF Bay area.
San Francisco (Bay Area) Lactation and ANR/ABF, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those seeking lactation, ANR, ABF partners in SF Bay Area.
San Francisco Bay Area Movie-and-Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone who likes the idea of seeing movies at cinemas in the Bay Area and then having munches right afterward.
San Francisco Bay Ballet and Dance BD/DS, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Informal group to share experiences, romance, beauty and language of dance.
San Francisco Bay Classical and Opera Romantic Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Informal group to share experiences, romance, sound and stories of classical music and opera
San Francisco Bay Shibari, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Informal group to share experiences, methods, the science and art, psychology and philosophy of rope bondage.
San Francisco D/s Discussion Group (SFDsDG), Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Directed discussion, held in a spirit of fellowship and mutual respect, on matters pertaining to Mastery, slavery, Dominance and submission, with an emphasis on our M/s and D/s lives, among persons of a variety of backgrounds, views, sensibilities, and philosophies.
San Francisco Erotic Hypnotism Peershare, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-20
Diverse, conscientious group dedicated to teaching and learning from one another. Welcomes newcomers. Works to create a safe environment to rapidly bring anyone interested in hypnosis to a high level of discussion and practice. Focuses on technique, safety, consent, and creativity.
San Francisco financial slave sponsors for artists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those in the SF area interested in being a financial slave, sponsor to an artist, or an artist looking for that.
San Francisco girls of Leather (SF goL), verified 2015-Mar-23
San Francisco girls of Leather (SF goL), Facebook, verified 2015-Mar-23
San Francisco girls of Leather (SF goL), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
San Francisco girls of Leather (SF goL), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Self-identified Leathergirls. Membership not limited by race, creed, orientation or gender. Mission: Provides camaraderie, and a safe space to any individual who identifies as a Leathergirl; provides community service in and around Bay Area Leather Community.
San Francisco Kink Friendly Housing, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kink friendly living situations, bondage warehouses, or even a slave commune.
San Francisco Leathermen’s Discussion Group, verified 2015-Mar-23
San Francisco Leathermen’s Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Social and educational all-volunteer organization, run by men of SF leather & BDSM community. Purpose: Discussion, welcoming newcomers, passing on the skills and traditions.
San Francisco Littles Munch, see SF Littles Munch
San Francisco Men’s Spanking Party Group, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
SF Bay Area male only spanking group.
San Francisco Open MAsT Meeting, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Open to those involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle.
San Francisco Swingers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Everything to do with swinging in SF. Questions about swinging, announcements about a party or event, looking to meet up with other swingers.
San Francisco Whips Workshop Info, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Grizzly’s Bullwhips by the Bay: a whip cracking workshop held in SF.
San Jose Gangbang, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Specializes in regular gangbang, bukkake, sex & other kinky parties. Dedicated to Women who love being pleased by multiple gentlemen in a fun, safe, controlled environment. Welcomes all ages, races, body types and sexually orientation.
Sanctuary Studios LAX, verified 2015-Mar-23
<<<Sanctuary Studios LAX>>>, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Formerly known as Passive Arts. 7,000+ square foot, fully equipped BDSM facility. Largest, one of the most prestigious, multi-chambered dungeons in Southern CA. Events, classes & workshops, play parties and more for like-minded individuals who share an interest in the BDSM Lifestyle.
Sanguine Chapter- California Chapter, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Wolf Pack Based DS Environment with heavy SM interactions. Wolves and Beasts of Fur and Fang Feather and Claw.
Santa Barbara Social, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Primarily for the Santa Barbara, Carpinteria, and Goleta area.
Santa Clara County Leather Association, verified 2015-Mar-23
Santa Clara County Leather Association, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Pansexual, social and educational leather club. Supports community, performs outreach to new leather folk and sponsor some fundraising events for charity. San Jose, Santa Clara, Campbell, Sunnyvale, Milpitas and surrounding.
Santa Cruz area Meat Market, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Santa Cruz, Monterey and South Bay area folks who are not able to regularly meet those fine folks north of Santa Clara. For posting personal ads without getting the boot.
Santa Cruz–Kink on the Beach!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dedicated to the community and welcoming kinksters into a safe, fun environment. Minimum: 2 events/month. Committed to community advocacy and the greater community.
Santa Cruz Poly Perves Pans ‘n’ Peeps, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Santa Cruz area people who are kinky and responsibly poly. All sexual orientations welcome, especially those who identify as pansexual, omnisexual, queer, GQ, and LGBTI.
Santa Rosa, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those in Santa Rosa, and surrounding Sonoma Co. area.
Santa Rosa,ca 420, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
In or close to Santa Rosa, 420 friendly or smokers.
Santa Rosa, California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To get to know some people around here.
Santa rosa gangbangs/hookups, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Post classified ads and meet other area kinksters.
S.C.A.T – Southern California Area Tickles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Anyone in SoCal area into tickling. Possible meet and greets. Maybe some play.
SCLG, verified 2015-Mar-23
SCLG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Southern California Leather Gathering. Annual outdoor picnic gathering open to ALL leather, BDSM, fetish, kink, motorcycle and bear individuals or groups of all genders and orientations. Relaxed atmosphere, have fun, raise awareness about size and diversity of leather/bdsm groups within SoCal.
Screwup: BDSM for Trans Folks and Queers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Ad-hoc group for trans folks, genderqueers, and gender-fluid people of all sorts, and friends. Open to people of all genders who have a sincere interest in subjects pertaining to kink and BDSM.
SDDS – San Diego DS Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Designed to support those who have an interest in power exchange within a relationship context.
SD Dolly, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Dollies and Dollers in or near SD, whether as a fashion fetish or a means of objectification and dehumanization, joined by the Aesthetic. Professional (photographers, art directors, wardrobe, makeup, hair, costume, models and vendors) and Lifestyle are welcome.
SD Fet (San Diego fetishists and fetishes), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
From the Dinner Party, Dance Party or Dungeon.
Seaside Swats, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= No longer being held, as of Dec 2012 =
The Serpentine Gallery, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Meeting place for Kinksters of all walks of life in AZ-CA-NV, to provide education on Lifestyle BDSM.
Servitus LA: Downtown LA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Lifestyle and professional dungeon in Downtown LA and Sister Dungeon to Dungeon Servitus SD. Monthly events, play parties, educational workshops.
Sex Addicts Anonymous, Chico, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Not affiliated in any way to SAA, and actually encourage good old fashioned fucking, or new age fucking – either way.
Sex Positive Los Angeles, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-26
Sex Positive Los Angeles, Meetup, reviewed 2015-Jul-26
For discussing events, ideas, or questions involving Sex Positive LA, Sex Positive World, or the Sex Positive movement.
SF & Oakland/Berkeley ONLY!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Similar to Bay Area Kinky People except that everyone here lives close to each other. Like BART traveling distance.
SF and East Bay Queer/Kink/Leather Happy Hour, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dedicated to bringing the queer kink and leather community together for a monthly social event to get to know each other, hang out together, meet new friends and or play partners, and have a good time.
SF Bay Area BDSM Events, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all kinky party and event hosts to publicize events.
SF Bay Area Breast Play, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people in the area into any kind of breast play – breast & nipple torture, breast bondage, nipple stimulation, lactation and milking, all that stuff. For breast people to meet.
SF Bay Area Burlesque, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Discuss, promote and share their love of burlesque performance in the SF Bay Area.
SF Bay Area Casting Models, Actors & Performers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For models, actors and performers in the Bay Area. To be used by local photographers, videographers, directors, producers, etc. for finding and hiring talent. Or for talent looking to promote themselves, or hire local photographers, videographers, etc.
SF Bay Area Femdom (lifestyle), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For dominant women of the SF Bay Area, and submissives who wish to make their acquaintance.
SF Bay Area Fitness Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Talk about fitness, health, athletics and local events.
SF Bay Area Gay and Bi Mens Dungeon Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dedicated to getting gay and bi male dungeon and BDSM players together.
SF Bay Area Goreans, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Intent: To meet real time for activities, discussion group, munches, and getting to know other Goreans outside of the internet.
SF Bay Area Helping Hands (Volunteer & Community Service in the San Francisco Bay Area), FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-10
Goal: Actively improve the community, demonstrate caring, empathy, and understanding for underprivileged groups, as well as provide an opportunity to socialize during volunteer work and before/after as a way to bring people together in order to bond through hard work, good deeds, and service.
SF Bay Area Holistic Lifestyle While Kinky (Friendship and or Dating), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To aggregate folks locally who practice, intend to or aspire to practice a holistic lifestyle. Purpose: To allow folks to make friends or date, in person.
SF Bay Area Jobs/Resources, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
SF Bay Area specific place to post jobs available, kink or’ nilla, or post if you are looking for work.
SF Bay Area Kink Friendly Hiking, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To connect those who love to get out into the wild open spaces or simply walk outdoors with like-minded kinky people.
SF bay area kinky buy/sell/trade/giveaway, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Posts to buy, sell, trade or give away kink related items.
SF Bay Area Kinky People, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Kinky people of all sorts in the SF Bay Area, as far south as Gilroy, north as Santa Rosa, and east as Livermore.
SF Bay Area Kinky Volunteers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
No restrictions on what kind of volunteer opportunity you’re looking for or posting about. Everything welcome – from kinky to vanilla.
SF Bay Area Lactation, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people that have a serious interest in lactation.
SF Bay Area Masters and slaves, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Pansexual. Devoted to M/s people living in the greater SF Bay Area
SF Bay Area Meat Market and Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For posting personal ads only.
SF Bay Area(ish) Medical Fetishists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who enjoy roles as doctor, nurse or patient, in Alameda, Contra Costa, Lake, Marin, Mendocino, Napa, San Mateo, San Francisco, Santa Clara, Solano and Sonoma counties.
SF Bay Area Mind Fuck, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dedicated to the pursuit of perverse and erotic curiosities through intellectual approaches.
SF Bay Area Needle Sluts, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For play piercing enthusiasts living in or visiting SF Bay Area. For all discussions related to needle play: technique/safety, scene ideas, asking advice, humor, workshop/event announcements, personals.
SF Bay Area Nerd Girls, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For nerd girls in the SF Bay Area – including those that identify as female, such as MtF and TG.
SF Bay Area Pussy Lickers and girls who like to be ate out, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Any gender. Love to worship, lick, suck, kiss and tease vulva, aka pussy?
SF Bay Area Singles and Meet-Ups, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Looking for someone? Maybe for a one-time partner for an exciting bondage workshop, meeting for shopping / clubbing / a Giants’ game, a quick hook-up, an occasional NSA play partner, or something-or-other that might become regular or maybe-even-long-term?
SF Bay Area Tall People, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For tall Bay Area people and their admirers.
SF Bay Area Watersports & Pee Play – San Francisco, CA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Watersports and bathroom games enthusiasts that encourage each other to explore mutual fetishes. Meetups in public as well as play parties encouraged.
SF Bay Area Wrestling, Grappling, and Rough Play, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all in the SF Bay Area who are practicing, interested in, or curious about all aspects of wrestling, jiu-jitsu, judo, etc. in their personal and especially kink lives.
SFBay Caning, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those loving the use of canes in play. Discuss matters, find resources, share construction techniques, connect with others of like mind close enough to meet.
sf bay gangbanggirls, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone who wants to partake or run gang bang events in SF.
SF Bootblack Munch – @Wicked Grounds, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-06
A skill sharing, networking and socialization meet-up for bootblacks.
SF Citadel, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Activities and events. San Francisco.
SF Citadel at SF Pride, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To bring everyone together for the San Francisco Pride Parade and Celebration.
SF Citadel Cycling Team to Cure Diabetes, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To honor the people in our community that diabetes has afflicted, and play full out to contribute towards an end to this disease.
SF Citadel Creative Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Includes all crafters of kinky persuasion.
SF Citadel Dungeon Monitors, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For dungeon monitors at the SF Citadel to discuss issues and processes, problems and solutions.
SF Citadel Flash, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For discussion of events, and a place to improve individual photographic skills. The only time cameras are allowed at the Citadel during a play party.
SF Citadel Men, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For men who enjoy dungeon and BDSM play.
SF Citadel Mens Parties, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= Defunct =
SF Citadel Presents TransMission!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Trans-centric play party.
SF Citadel Presents: VIBE, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Celebration of rich and vibrant community diversity. A celebration of music, cultures, and everything that moves us. The event for kinky people of color, their friends, and those who love them.
SF Citadel Relocation Group: Volunteers and Talent, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For organizing the move of the Citadel from Mission Street.
SF Citadel Swap It Out, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone who gets excited about finding an awesome piece of clothing, especially when it’s at a thrift store or better yet, Swap It Out!
SF Citadel: Tryst, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Specialty party for those who consider themselves to be “on the market” for new dating partners.
SF Citadel Women, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Women and those that identify 24/7 as women (IS and MtFs) that enjoy/attend/support the Citadel.
SFCP (San Francisco Corporal Punishment), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those in the SF Bay Area who identify as “spankos” or who are otherwise involved with spanking and CP (corporal punishment).
SF East Bay Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dedicated to forming a network of SF East Bay people in the scene.
SF East Bay Tickle Bunch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
If you’re someone who’s interested in tickling and would like to meet other like-minded tickle fans.
SF East Bay TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For ages 18-40 to get to know other young people in the community. Will have munches, parties and other bonding activities.
SF Fetish Pre-BaGG Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Provides a way to get to know others in the BDSM/kink community without the pressure of a play environment or pounding music to talk over.
SF-GrUE, verified 2015-Mar-23
SF-GrUE, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For the upcoming SFGrUE (Graydancer’s Ropetastic Unconference Extravaganza)
SF Kink Liberation Squad, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For SF Bay Area kinksters who want to think, talk and act upon emancipatory desires (liberation and justice) inside, outside and on the threshold of the dungeon. Our common ground is a shared commitment to anti-racism, anti-sexism, anti-heteronormativity, anti-classism, anti-imperialism, etc
SF Kinky Cocktail Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Monthly meeting in a bar, lounge or club in SF for kinky people who enjoy cocktails and meeting others. Emphasis: Meeting in more upscale locations.
SF Kinky Crafters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those that want to actually make stuff in the SF Bay area.
San Francisco Littles Munch, verified 2015-Mar-23
SF Littles Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
NOT for personals. Restricted to: Littles, bigs, age play enthusiasts in SF, Bay Area and beyond. Tries to have something extra fun for people each month in addition to the coloring, crafts, and getting to make new friends.
SF North Bay Kinky Gamers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Organizing and discussing games/events that will occur in the North Bay. Primarily tabletop and video gaming as well as live-action role playing. San Rafael, Novato, Petaluma, Santa Rosa, Napa, Vallejo, Fairfield, Vacaville.
SF Pervert Burrito Brigade, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Get together with a group of pervs to roll them up and hand them out to people living on our city streets.
SF Power Exchange, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Not an “official” PE group.
SF Queer Leather Meditation Group, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-26
For those who have a meditation practice and are queer and leather/kink-identified. To create a safe space to support each other as we practice in our daily lives.
SF TG women and friends, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Discuss TG friendly events, clubs, spaces, places in the SF Bay area. Includes part time cross dressers and transvestites thru post op transsexuals.
SFV Pervs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinksters and pervies who live in San Fernando Valley area of LA. Women, Men, couples, “other groups”, transgenders, crossdressers, and others, of all shapes, sizes, races, and FL-allowed ages welcome.
Shasta Area Kink Enthusiasts – ShAKE, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-06
For Kinksters of Siskiyou Co/Mt Shasta Area, from Shasta Lake to the OR Border (Dunsmuir, Lakehead, Weed, Yreka, Mt. Shasta, Lake Shastina, Alturas, McCloud, Etna, Ft. Jones, Ashland, Klamath Falls), to get together to make kinky friends.
Sherman Oaks Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
All genders, ages, and fetishes welcome. One of the best attended and largest Munches in LA.
Shy in Berkeley, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Kinky but shy? Want to ease your way into the scene? Have social anxiety but want to make some friends? Goal: To get shy folks talking and ease our way to less cozy events.
Simi Valley friends, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To meet some others for maybe cocktails, dinner, evenings out for fun.
Sindulgences, Yahoo
= Group scheduled to close =
The Sinner’s Sanctum, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-21
Partnering with the best of the North and SF Bay to offer demos, play, pole and go-go dancing with a full service bar.
Sissy Society Southern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Mistresses or Masters looking for Sissies and or sissies looking for Training.
Skiing and Snowboading in Southern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For fun people who love to get out and ski or snowboard.
Skill trade for the Bay Area and Northern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
From computer repair, to gardening, to deck building, to massage, to piano lessons and beyond.
Slash Riders of San Diego, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
aka Switches. Monthly social in the Poway/Rancho Bernardo area; monthly Sunday brunch discussion in the La Mesa area.
SLO NICE and KNOTTY, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-01
Positive and safe environment for rope enthusiasts in the central coast.
SLOLOCK, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
San Luis Obispo Loyal Order Of Community and Kink. Members only. Welcoming all kink-related friends and people as long as they abide by SSC and RACK. Dedicated to educating and providing fun group activities.
SLO R.A.C.K TNG, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-01
Strives to create a welcoming and safe environment for members of the the kink community 40 and under.
SM Flea Market – SF, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For vendors, prospective vendors, attendees, etc. Held 3 times a year.
SM Odyssey, verified 2015-Mar-23
smOdyssey-A community of members, a member of the community, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
San Jose. Classes, workshops, social gatherings, discussion groups, online forums, community outreach events, opportunities to share experience, enthusiasm and enjoyment with peers. Whether a first foray into sensation or role play, or a highly-skilled veteran of the leather/BDSM scene.
smOdyssey, DV8s Riders Group, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-04
smOdyssey, DV8s Riders Group, Yahoo, reviewed 2015-Jun-04
Special Interest Group (SIG) of members who enjoy the shared pleasure and enjoyment of riding motorcycles and participating in ride events. DV8’s do not have to own or ride a motorcycle to be a member, just enjoy the activities and purposes of the group and its activities.
smOdyssey TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
South Bay based pansexual group. Ages 19-35. Focus: promoting a safe space for sharing ideas and knowledge while fostering social contact, education, and community among kinky youth. Welcomes newcomers and not-so-new and aim to provide the “first step” into entering the kink community.
*SMACK* DINNERS – 1st and 3rd Tuesdays – Peter’s Cafe, #10 El Camino Real, Millbrae (Near SFO-SF Airport) 7-9pm, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
1st and 3rd Tuesdays – 7-9pm, Millbrae (Near SFO-SF Airport).
So CA Gay Dom/sub Men, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Restricted to: Gay Dominants and submissive Men
SoCal Angels Shooting Squad (SASS), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For women, genderqueer, and trans* gun enthusiasts. Range days, training opportunities, and social events. Efforts will be made to create SASS events throughout the SoCal region and to identify non-group educational opportunities.
SoCal ANR Lactation Lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people into ANR in SoCal can connect and possibly meet.
SoCal BDSM Swingers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those in the BDSM Community that also swing.
So Cal Bi Bondage, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Restricted to: Bisexual M &F, Open minded hetrosexuals (who are ok around bi play), and gay Men and Lesbians.
SoCal Chatroom, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For SoCal lifestylers to get together and chat.
SoCal Christians into Kink, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-02
Where Christians who are into BDSM can find like-minded folk.
SO CAL Cock Worship/Blowjob fans, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Anyone in Southern CA who loves Cock and either giving or receiving Cock Worship or Blow Jobs.
So Cal Collars and Rings, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Where married couples involved in a power exchange dynamic relationship (M/s, D/s) w/their spouse can meet, share, discuss, bounce ideas with other couples dealing with issues and challenges of being married. Open to all married couples, not dependent on gender or sexual orientation.
SoCal Diaper Lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone in or visiting the area into diapers in some form or fashion. Where people can meet, talk, and organize events.
SoCal Enema, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Share ideas, desires, experiences and even arrange meet ups to have fun, explore and or educate.
SoCal FemDom, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those residing in SoCal areas who are in the FemDom LifeStyle. Whether you’re a Domme or -sub-, have a D/s relationship or are seeking a D/s for play or as a partner.
SoCal Floggers, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-01
For anyone w/interest in floggers: Tops, bottoms, flogger makers, flogging equipment makers, etc. Organizing events; creating a network for flogging community; creating opportunities for learning and mentoring; providing outreach to the BDSM community and beyond; creating a place to socialize.
So-Cal Furrys, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
If you live in SoCal and are a furry
So Cal Furs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all those Bad Ass of baddington furries that live in Southern CA.
So Cal Golden shower piss lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all those in Southern CA or travel to there, who love golden showers and piss. Whether novice, curious or expert, man or women, receiver and or giver. Meet, discuss, share stories and pics.
SoCal Goth, Industrial, Caberet and Burlesque, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Working with photographers, models, theatre groups and fellow film makers.
SoCal Hiking, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To meet other hiking enthusiasts, discuss hiking and to go hiking together.
SoCal Hypno Connections, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Created to promote and develop SoCal Hypnosis and mental exploration communities. Meeting, event, or class listings.
SoCal interracial Daddies (& Mommies) and the ‘littles’ they love, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Focusing on age play dynamics. If you run events, know about events or just looking for like-minded people or to adopt or be adopted.
SoCal Kinky Ravers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Keep in the loop with upcoming events, and the ability to meet up with like-minded folks.
SoCal – Kinky Roommates…, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those in SoCal area looking for other kinky roommates.
So Cal Kinky Scooter/Motorcycle Riders, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all Kinky riders to connect. Any style of bike. Any size engine. Announce a group ride. Search for a group ride. Form groups to go ride. Share bike info and resources. Scooter and small displacement motorcycle riders.
SoCal Leather Master/slave Contest, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For questions, contestants and those who wish to support it.
SolCalMunch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those living in or near Cabazon, Banning, Cherry Valley, Palm Springs, Bermuda Dunes, Indian Wells, Palm Desert, Rancho Mirage, La Quinta, Indio, Coachella, Thermal, Desert Shores, Salton City, Borrego Springs, Westmoreland, Imperial, & El Centro.
SoCal Off the Beaten Path, FetLife, verified 2015-Jun-07
For people who want to get together to do fun things in and around SD and adjoining counties.
SoCal O/p Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those living, or seeking to live, in an O/p (Owner/property) style relationship.
SoCal Pegging Meetup Sex Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Meets monthly for an evening of sodomy.
SoCalPEX (Southern California Power Exchange), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Purpose: Support people of all genders and orientations interested in engaging in power exchange relationships by supplying tools and resources to assist them in developing healthy, functional, and real relationships.
SoCal Poly Support Group, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-05
LA. Whether curious about what it means to be poly or in a platonic or non-platonic poly. Here to offer support. A safe space to discuss the peaks and the valleys, to open up without judgement, to be you.
So Cal Shibari, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Japanese Rope with fun, camaraderie, learning. Peer rope group focusing on Shibari/Kinbaku influenced bondage. Social atmosphere for rope play and camaraderie, exciting classes, special events, and other general mischief that spells fun.
So Cal S&M Romance, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For area people to talk and possibly meet each other as just friends or romance.
SoCal Spankos, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To meet each other and talk, as well as to plan meets, play parties, etc.
SoCalSubFem Room from AOL, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Restricted to: Those who recall the heyday of the SoCalSubFem Room (and other AOL counterparts), and the people who just want to have fun!
So Cal Swingers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To organize and get together for a fun romp around local area hotels. Advocates common sense and safety when playing and potential members should be tested regularly.
So Cal Tea Party Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
If you live in Southern CA and would like to have a giant tea party, join here! Ranges from an adult like tea party, to ‘little girls’ laughing and giggling in Alice dresses. It’s just all about the tea!
SoCal Wicked Games, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people who like to play card games and board games of vanilla and kinky topics. For people to feel welcome and meet new people without the pressure of a play party.
So. California BDSM Non-Pro Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Run by Non-Pro BDSM members For Non-Pro BDSM Dom, FemDom, Master, Mistress, sub, slave, or “unsure” of their role BDSM members of FetLife.
SO. California Wyld Ryderz, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For motorcycle enthusiasts of all genders and kink, who like to ride hard and play harder! Emphasis on fun rides, fun times and fun people!
The Social Hour, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-31
A place to plan and or promote local events throughout CA.
Society of Janus, verified 2015-Mar-23
Society of Janus, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Nonprofit, volunteer run, SF-based education & support organization devoted to the art of safe, consensual, and non-exploitative power exchange. Organizes educational programs on a variety of BDSM topics and issues and Social events providing opportunity for community interactions.
SoJ Connecting People, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-20
Dedicated to helping people meet other people who are open to various kinds of relationships.
Sonoma County FetLife Members, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Sonoma Co. residents into all things fetishes, kinks, and BDSM. Safe place for newcomers and experts, kinky and vanilla alike to share their experiences and ask and answer questions. Posting events and munches in the area encouraged.
Sonoma County Youth Culture, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
No one over 39. Aimed at having an outlet for being social, when not in the mood for kink. Or just getting out of the house. We’re kinky. For bodily active vanilla events.
Sonora area munches/meets, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-04
Munch gatherings and demos. All ages, genders, and classifications welcome.
SOREMARC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
SOREMARC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Southern Oregon, Medford, Ashland Resource Center. Mission: Provide alternative lifestyle S.OR-NorCal a community play space and educational resource center. To provide kinksters a space for special events, parties, and place to play in a safe, comfortable way.
South Bay and San Jose Kink!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who live or play in the South Bay. Safe place for anyone to gather, talk, and plan ways to make the area kink people get together, have fun, and become stronger.
South Bay (CA) BDSM/Poly Forum, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Where like-minded, BDSM kinksters, who are also Poly, can hang out and share or discuss mutual issues of relationships and its many variants, attitudes, biases for and against, experiences, viewpoints, tips, hints, kinks, shares, etc.
South Bay Cigar and Boots Social, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Discuss the event.
South Bay Girl Talk, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
South Bay Girl Talk, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Social Networking group for those who reside anywhere in SF Bay Area. Meets for intimate discussion, in a private home in San Jose.
SouthBayMunch_Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
South Bay (Los Angeles) Munch, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
For friends in the South Bay area of LA County (and those who love us) to get together and enjoy friendship and to share their experience with each other. Monthly social.
South Bay Shoe Crawl, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Booze and Shoes…Need I say more?
South Bay Spot, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
South Bay Spot, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
South Bay Spot – CarShare / Rides, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
South Bay Spot – DM’s, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
South Bay Spot – Personals and more, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-27
South Bay Spot – Volunteers, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
South Bay Spot, Twitter, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
Community BDSM club centered in Silicon Valley. Hosts regular classes, events, workshops, meetings, and get-togethers focused on our kinky interests and community building.
South Bay Spot – Allied Community Groups Events Announcements, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
For any community group in SF/South Bay area to post announcements about events of interest.
South Bay TNG, verified 2015-Mar-23
South Bay TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Education and social group for ages 18-35. Goal: Provide a comfortable, safe and non-threatening environment to meet others of like mind, increase knowledge and skill levels, and explore the greater kink community.
South OC Kinksters are People Too, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
If you live in southern CA, specifically between LA & SD, come talk to us, and get to know your neighbors.
South Orange County Rope Night, SOCRnight, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Fun filled nights–friends, bondage, suspension, rigging, body harnesses, show off flair for rope, share knowledge, learn from others with a passion for tying or being tied.
South West Dolly, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Dollies and Dolliers in AZ-CA-NM-NV-UT, either as a fashion fetish or a means of objectification and dehumanization. Joined by the Aesthetic. Professional (photographers, art directors, wardrobe, makeup, hair, costume, models and vendors) and Lifestyle welcome.
Southern CA Young AB/DL’s(18-35), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
AB/DLs (Adult Babies/Diaper Lovers) living in southern CA area (SD, Riverside, Orange, LA Counties).
Southern CA Singles Social, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Singles Mixer. Happens right before a monthly play party. Play party open to everyone: monogamous, poly, single, looking, all sexual orientations. Classy, dress to impress, and polite.
Southern Calif. Switch Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Specifically for local Switches, where everything pertaining to being a switch can be explored.
Southern California Abdl’s, Daddies, Mommys, Etc., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all SoCal ABDLs, daddies, mommies, big bro’s, babysitters and more, looking to have a good time, chat, meet up, and most importantly, have fun.
Southern California BDSM Events, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Post area events.
Southern California Bisexual Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Networking and play group for local bisexual women, couples, men, and transgenders. Focus: LA, San Fernando, Santa Clarita, and Antelope Valleys, Long Beach, Orange/Riverside/San Bernardino/Imperial/Santa Barbara counties. ALL Sexual Flavors welcome.
Southern California Boxing, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To meet, connect, discuss and box with one another. Everything from: fantasy boxing, competitive boxing, one-sided beatdowns, or if you just have a boxing glove fetish, ALL aspects of boxing welcomed.
Southern California Cannabis Connoisseurs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
From the 310 to the 619, and everything in between, we be keeping it 420 friendly. Find your kinky buds up in here. Chat about your favorite strains, favorite positions, or favorite arguments for why we should legalize it.
Southern California CFNM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
CFNM experiences, and creating new ones. LA, OC, IE and SD areas.
Southern California Crack Dealers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For whip enthusiasts, novices or beginners who have never thrown a whip. A roaming gathering all about whips.
Southern California Cuckold Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Convenient place for Southern CA cuckolds and cuckoldresses to network and share information
Southern California Daddy’s for Tranny’s, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For TV’s/CD’s/TS to meet Daddys and Little special girls. For those wanting training or age play or whatever.
Southern California Dogging & Public Naked Fun, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone interested in collecting and sharing info on public nudity, sex, and dogging.
Southern California Dollies, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Rubber, Rag, or Barbie. If you’re in SoCal and wish to be a dolly, or want to own a dolly
Southern California Dommes and subs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For SoCal Dommes and subs.
Southern California Events List, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Please feel free to share all your club events.
Southern California Face Sitting, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For men and women who enjoy face sitting and live in southern CA.
Southern California Felines, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Specifically for felines living in CA’s lower half, be they furry, therian, or just like wearing ears and tails. Inclusive of all genders, orientations, races, religions, and lifestyle choices.
Southern California Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For SoCal residents to come and meet like-minded kinksters for anything and everything taboo.
Southern California Latex Lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who live, or plan to live, in SoCal, and have a serious fetish for latex and/or rubber, to find and communicate with friends or play-partners.
Southern California Leather Woman, verified 2015-Mar-23
Southern California Leather Women, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all women in SoCal who embrace the lifestyle and values of leather traditions to come together in community. Honors each woman’s journey to leather noting there are a wide range of paths to follow and respect is paramount to unifying this community.
Southern California M/M Spanking and Discipline, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-01
For men in the region interested in spanking between two consenting male adults. No childhood memories, no age play. May include other types of discipline, such as corner time, washing mouth out with soap, etc. Includes posts for personals and for general discussion.
Southern California/Orange County Gangbang Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For adults 18+. Single females and single males invited. Couples always most welcome.
Southern California Pantyhose Encasement, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Helping people in Southern CA find like minded kinksters into pantyhose, nylon, tights and other forms of encasement.
Southern California Personal ads, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Place personal ads for the LA, OC, San Bernardino, Riverside and SD areas.
Southern California Photography Exchange, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Support group for both Photographers, Fetishists, as well as groups who would like professional photograph work for private shoots and or events.
Southern California Polyamory, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Specifically for those within about an hour of Newport Beach. Open to anyone interested in polyamory, regardless of where you may live.
Southern California Polyamory Meetup Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Southern California Polyamory Meetup Group, Meetup, verified 2015-Mar-23
Family friendly. Meets in east San Fernando Valley. Meet other supporters of multi-partner relationships and families. Talk about open relationships, polyfidelity, polyamory, honesty, respect and alternate forms of commitment.
Southern California Ravers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For ravers who reside in SoCal.
Southern California Sadists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To get together digitally or in person to share ideas and thoughts on the skills involved in being a Sadist.
Southern california singles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Meet friends, lovers, loving-friends, and anything else.
Southern California Social, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= Cancelled for 2014 =
Southern California Spank Parties!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Spankers/ees from SoCal. Meet and greet at socials. Plan and have spanking parties. Discuss pleasurable and sexually exciting aspects of spankings.
Southern California Tickling Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For SoCal people to meet other tickling freaks.
Southern California TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinksters ages 18-39. Based in Redlands. Aims to serve the greater Southern CA area, includes San Bernardino, Riverside, LA, Orange and San Diego Counties.
Southern Californian Kinky Heathens and Pagans, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dedicated to support and empowerment of kinky followers and practitioners of alternative Faiths, for the members to meet and network with the other members for spiritual growth and support.
Southern California’s Fetish Scene, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Post SoCal Fetish/BDSM events here.
Southern Cross, verified 2015-Mar-23
Southern Cross, verified 2015-Mar-23
Southern Cross, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Southern Cross, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Provides public access munches and classes and kinky “Field Trips”, for newbies and old-schoolers alike. Hosts charity events, public and private BDSM parties, offers scrumptious kinky catering, leads discussion and support groups, assists in setting up private mentoring.
Southern Cross Subspace Discussion, verified 2015-Mar-23
Southern Cross Subspace Discussion, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Realtime discussion group for bottoms, subs, slaves, switches in bottom mode, those who relate to this mindset. Share stories, ask for advice or suggestions, to create a free, safe space for people to verbalize their joys, fears, concerns, and to network. Find friends, mentors, & support.
Southern Cross TopSpace Discussion, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
BDSM discussion group for those new to the scene, very experienced, or somewhere in between. Socialize and discuss your current successes, challenges, and stories in a relaxed, non-judgmental, safe space. All genders/sexualities/races/abilities invited.
Southern Oregon Coastal Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Resource for connecting with others in our lifestyle, posing questions for discussion, making event announcements, planning events, and discovering new friends. Southern coastline OR-N CA.
Southern States Cuckold and Hotwife, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all types of cuckolds, cuckqueans, Hotwives, Slutwives, Cuckoldresses, studs. All orientations. Straight, Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian, Transgender. And lifestyle choices. Master, slave, Dominant, submissive, switch. And all personalities. AL-AR-AZ-CA-FL-GA-KY-LA-MS-NC-NM-OK-PR-SC-TN-TX-VA
SouthWest Age Play League: Littles, Diapers and Dresses, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Any form of age and role play-infant to teenager, incl: Littles, Adult Babies, Diaper lovers, AB/DL, Sissys, Spanking, Crossdressing, Feminization, Bois, Gurls, Mommys, Daddys, Aunts, Uncles, Babysitters, Brothers, Sisters, Cheerleaders, Role Play, Gender Bending, etc AZ-CA-CO-KS-NM-NV-OK-TX-UT
Southwest Modeling – AZ, CA, NV, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For photographers or models in or going to be in the area. Castings only.
Special Interest Group – Antelope Valley, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-25
All Kink group of friendly 18+ folks. Hosts both Vanilla and Kink events in Lancaster, Palmdale, Antelope Valley and immediate surrounding areas.
Spirituality and BDSM in San Diego, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Aim: To provide awareness, share experiences and practical advice for those who use BDSM as part of their Spiritual development.
Sploshing Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Pies? Slime? Food mess? Angelino? Sound like you? Like getting messy? Want to find a local messy friend?
Stampede (San Francisco Bay Area Animal Roleplay Society), verified 2015-Mar-23
Stampede, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
One of the nation’s largest organized ponyplay and human animal roleplay groups. Pansexual, open to all, 18+. Hosts animal roleplay parties, organizes munches, demos and workshops.
Stitch & Switch: East Bay Kinky Sewing, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Project-focused meetup group for kinky sewers. Emphasis: Lingerie, undergarments, costume elements, and other sexy wearables. Support each other in learning and improving our sewing skills. Projects should be fabric-focused, including pattern-making, design, fitting, techniques etc
Stockton Area D/s Meetup, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Planning nights out and vanilla get-togethers for Stockton area, Lodi, Galt, Manteca, Lathrop, Tracy, Ripon, Linden and surrounding. Post when you want to go out to a movie, a meal, to the park or something fun and would like to invite others to tag along.
Stockton BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Local discussion group for those involved in alternative B/D, D/S, and S/M lifestyles. Monthly munch. Provides safe, nurturing environment for those beginning to explore BDSM and longtime members of the community wanting to spend an evening socializing with people with common interests.
Stockton/Delta/Valley Women in BDSM weeknight Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Monthly women’s discussion group. Meetings are a potluck dinner, held in a private Stockton home.
Stockton Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Where people of Stockton and Manteca (basically Central Valley) to come together and meet, talk, get together, or whatever.
Stomping Ground San Diego- A Sex Positive Community Center, reviewed 2015-Jun-21
The Stomping Ground San Diego- A Sex Positive Community Center, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-21
Kinky, membership-based community center. Promotes a sex positive culture. Promotes the exploration and celebration of human sexuality. Seeks to educate and facilitate consensual open sexual expression and dialogue and provides a venue for fellowship and community.
Stonelake Funeral Association, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
We put the “Fun” back in funeral and do our best to remove the “Ass” from association. Collection of friends in CA that help run a small kinky funeral home.
Strap on in So CA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
People who love strapons in SoCal.
Strapon so cal, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For the strap on lovers of southern California. Monthly Munch ideas. Strapon design. Personal favorites. Likes and dislikes.
Strong Sexy Women, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Women’s only space. Monthly munches held in Burbank.
Stunt Cocks & Cunts – SF Bay Area, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For willing thirds (fourths, fifths, sixths & up) to meet couples or singles wanting to arrange a group scene. Those who have successfully arranged such hot scenes can share tips and stories. Hot stunt cocks/cunts can review working with hot couples, and vice-versa.
SubSpace Inland Empire, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinksters in, around the Inland Empire.
Submissive Round Table – Inland Empire, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Goal: To be a safe place to learn and grow, share ideas and experience.
Submissive Voice, verified 2015-Mar-23
Submissive Voice, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Monthly meeting for SD’s submissive people in the D/s, BDSM lifestyle to come and share.
Suisun BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone that lives in the Suisun/Fairfield area of NorCal, whether you just want to learn about the lifestyle, or you live it 24/7.
Survive:Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Dedicated to Survivalism in Northern CA. Plans include; Survival and Disaster Preparedness, Alternate community living, as well as all things to do with taming the wilds and unknowns in life.
SwitchSpace, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= On hiatus. =Discussion group in the Bay Area to help individuals discuss the unique challenges that arise from the switch way of life.
T4Transitions, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Sacramento area. To laugh and share with others who are new to the scene or gather info and outlooks from folks who have been around for a while. Open to all flavors and play levels. Focus: New lifestylers’ issues, public and private.
Team Sex eXperiment, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Volunteer organization, comprised of young kinksters that work as a group to bring education, support, and resource to the LA BDSM community. Throws parties, organizes classes, maintains a free mentor organization.
Temecula Valley Wine Tasters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those interested in organizing and/or attending wine tastings in Temecula Valley. Open to postings of any local food, wine and chocolate events.
Think Kink: Santa Cruz Kinky Youth, verified 2015-Mar-23
Think Kink: Santa Cruz Kinky Youth, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For young kinksters (18-35) in Santa Cruz interested in alternative sexual lifestyles like S&M, BDSM, role play, and other less than conventional sexual practices. Exchange information and meet with like-minded individuals.
Threesomes In The Pacific North West, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone looking for, or interested in, threesomes in the PNW — AK-CA-OR-WA
Thousand Oaks, ca strapon lovers and surrounding areas, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To make new friends who have the fetish for strapon.
Threshold, verified 2015-Mar-23
Threshold Club Discussions, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Threshold Club Events, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
BDSM/Leather Club in N.Hollywood. Non-profit 501.c social organization concerned with exploring and enjoying the world of bondage, discipline, sado-masochism and related activities. Active in local community. Considered a first place for those interested in the BDSM lifestyle to explore.
Threshold Rope Workshop, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Monthly classes, events etc.
Threshold’s CLUB FANTASY, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To keep the T-girl/Transvestite/Transsexual/Transgender community connected to each other and those who admire them. Welcomes information for other T-girl events being held in the LA area.
THRUST, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Industrial Fetish. Fetish Social Event. SD.
Tickle Feet California Norcal, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people who enjoy Tickling/Bondage/Foot Fetish in NorCal.
TNG Long Beach, CA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Support, education and social group for kinksters 18-35. Aim: Create a meeting space for younger kinksters to meet people of similar minds and facing similar challenges.
Tri-county Kinksters for fun, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For making long time friendships and being able to openly discuss any topic even the taboo/fetish/fantasy ones. Mix and mingle with like-minded people From Fresno, Visalia, Tulare, Bakersfield and surrounding.
Triple S Group (Submissive Social Support), Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
= Members Removed =
Tri-Valley and Beyond Kinky Brunch Bunch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinksters in the Tri-Valley area, including Livermore, Pleasanton, Dublin, San Ramon, Modesto, Stockton, Danville, Tracy, Oakland, and SF.
— Listing removed per owner request —
The Twisted Tiki Drunch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Oakland. Monthly salon for the desperately hip, the haply disparate, the hopped up dispatched, the joiners, the standalones, and anyone else who happens to enjoy a damn fine tiki drink.
UCSC Meetup, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Informal social group UC-Santa Cruz for current students and recent alumni.
Under 35 SoCal, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all people under 35.
Uniform Club of Los Angeles or Uniforms in Southern California, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
All about collecting, owning and wearing uniforms as a fetish and as part of play in SoCal.
United Fetishists Long Beach (UFLB), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Non-profit Membership organization. Purpose: Strengthen and unify fetish communities of Long Beach and surrounding. Accomplishes mission through education, mentorship, social/service opportunities and fundraising events. Promotes equal and fair treatment of all fetishists and non-fetishists.
The Vacaville Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Great place to meet others in BDSM from the Vacaville, Fairfield, Dixon, Sacramento area and beyond.
Vallejo Munch Society – V.M.S., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those who live in the western Solano Co. area who would like to stay close to home and meet with other like-minded lifestylers.
Valley Hobbies, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinksters in Central Valley (Bakersfield, Fresno, Visalia, Tulare etc) area to come together to discuss and enjoy different hobbies. Ex: Leather working, woodworking, stained glass, Arduinos, models, underwater basket weaving, clay, glass blowing, baking/decorating.
Vanilla Events in Northern CA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Fun vanilla happenings in NorCal!
Vanilla Interests for Kinky People-Fresno, CA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To do things in the vanilla world, from concerts, pub crawls, bowling, miniature golf, a dinner show.
Vanilla Interests for Kinky People — Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
To post your other interests: Concerts and sports, Second Saturdays and farmer’s markets, festivals and Harry Potter premieres, wine tasting tours and belly dancing classes.
Ventura County BDSM & Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Private parties at a private estate in Camarillo.
Ventura County Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For those living in Ventura to connect with each other and the community. Camarillo, Carpinteria, Goleta, Moorpark, Oak View, Ojai, Oxnard, Point Mugu, Port Hueneme, Santa Barbara, Santa Paula, Simi Valley, Solvang, Somis, Summerland, Thousand Oaks, Ventura, Westlake Village.
Ventura MDHL-fs (Male-Dom-Het-Leather), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For anyone (top, bottom, Dominant, submissives, Master, slave, etc.) who identifies as being interested in (though not necessarily currently involved in) a Male Dominant/Female submissive power or authority exchange relationship.
Venus Night @ the Lair de Sade, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Promoting FemDom Night (aka Venus Night) at the Lair de Sade in N.Hollywood.
Venus’ Playground, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Non-profit organization. Part of the Folsom Street Events group. Dedicated to serving the women’s alternative lifestyle communities. Promotes diversity within the women’s community by highlighting entertainment, community service, and supporting vendors.
Visalia Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Wonderfully kinky people who get together so that we can talk of our lifestyle choices in the open with friendly people of like minds. Monthly munches held in a local restaurant.
Voluptuous Entertainment Burlesque, verified 2015-Mar-23
Voluptuous Entertainment Burlesque, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Plus-sized burlesque troupe in SoCal.
Walnut Creek Munch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-04
For singles and couples to meet after work or sport to taste delicious wine and talk about all things kink. Everyone welcome.
WAM / Gunge Fans of SoCal, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
SoCal fans of wet and messy play.
Warehaus, MFG., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Functions as a private event space that features dungeon capabilities as well as serving as a central community space for the area. NOT a public dungeon.
Wasteland Weekend Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Post-apocalyptic festival in the SoCal desert.
WCPX, see West Coast Power Exchange
We Want Them Young (Long Beach, CA 18-25), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Make friends, maybe find potential play partners or relationships around our age group if one isn’t into age play.
*We Want Them Young (18-35, Long Beach/Los Angeles Area)*, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-30
Friendly “vanilla” side of Fetlife! Designed for people looking for friendships with their fellow kinky peeps. Safe-house for young folks.
Wednesday Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Weekly munch. Sunnyvale.
West Coast Babby Mafia, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For fancy ABDLs who live in CA-OR-WA.
West Coast Cuckold and Hotwife, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For connection and communication, all types of cuckolds, cuckqueans, Hotwives, Slutwives, Cuckoldresses, studs, & any others. For all orientations-Straight, Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian, Transgender; lifestyle choices-Master, slave, Dominant, submissive, switch; all personalities.
West Coast Power Exchange (WCPX), verified 2015-Mar-23
WCPX, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
West Coast Power Exchange (WCPX), Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-23
Real time group based in Ventura, Santa Barbara, Ojai, Moorpark, Thousand Oaks areas. Meets on a regular basis for socializing, discussions and demonstrations. Membership ranges from novice to experienced. All aspects of the BDSM lifestyle respected and welcomed.
The West Coast Social, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= On hiatus, until further notice =
West CoCo Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Also known as the “San Pablo Munch”. Expanded to cover all of West Contra Costa Co., including San Pablo, Richmond, El Cerrito, and the entire West Contra Costa region.
West Hills Gathering, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
= No longer held =
West LA / UCLA / Santa Monica / Westwood, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For people on the west side of LA.
West Los Angeles Bulls and Cuck Couples, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-01
For Bulls and cuckold couples to find each other or chat in West LA.
Western States Veteran Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For Vets, Disabled Vets and Active Duty men and women, needing help with various issues, be it legal due to BDSM concerns, job search, website links and many items of interest. AZ-CA-CO-ID-MT-ND-NM-NV-OR-SD-UT-WA-WY
White Moms for black Doms in North Hollywood, CA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For real time players and extremely action oriented kinksters in the San Fernando Valley.
Whittier Foodie Munch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-30
Rotating venue Munch centralized around Whittier. Meets in vanilla setting. Conversation open to any topic; good place to ask questions. Pansexual. No judgments about others’ consensual activities. Welcomes Dominant, submissive, poly, straight, bi, gay, trans, AB, kinky, etc.
Whittier Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
People of a like mind who live in and around Whittier.
Wicked Games, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For all kinky gamers and the games we love: Board games, Card games, Video games, Role Playing games and anything in between.
Wicked Grounds, verified 2015-Mar-23
Wicked Grounds, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
SF’s first and only Kink Café and Boutique.
Wild Women Walk…Run…Skip…Frolic…Play, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Leather women, kinky gals, bondage babes, and S/M sisters, for women-positive events such as hikes, group outings, and occasional indoor gatherings in the Santa Cruz area.
Wild Things SF, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-02
Citadel play party. Emphasis on participation, performance, art and costumes. Furries, Pet Players, Puppy Players, Pony players, and Curious Kinksters. Games, music, photo shoots, scenes, cuddles, well appointed dungeon space for play.
Wine and Kink, Inc., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Gatherings about wine, good conversation and enjoying life.
Wolfucking Los Angeles, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-02
To help men and women who are into giving and receiving a primal yet tender kind of experience. For all dynamics, hetrosexual, Homosexual and everything in between orientation.
Wolfucking San Francisco Bay Area Chapter, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-02
To help men and women who are into giving and receiving a primal yet tender kind of experience. For all dynamics, hetrosexual, Homosexual and everything in between orientation.
The Wolves Den Bayarea Bi/Curious Men, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Come and discuss what’s on your mind, how you came out, if coming out is right for you, how your life has changed. All welcome.
Women In Leather Los Angeles, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-02
Women In Leather Los Angeles, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-02
Goals: Provide education on Women’s Leather History, service to our community as well as events sharing time together. To have monthly meetings, outings, local community support.
WorshipHer – Sacramento, Facebook, verified 2015-Mar-23
WorshipHer, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
Created to celebrate female dominance. Pansexual discussion & activity group, which focuses primarily on the relationships and interests of female identified Dominants, Tops, Mistresses and Switches (in their top hats). Welcomes bottoms, subs, slaves and kinksters who adore Female control.
WTFW Fresno/Clovis, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-11
Safe way to meet like-minded people and explore the community. Good company, a way to reach out and communicate with other kinksters and make friends.
Yellow Hankies San Diego, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For guys into watersports/piss play. Local events.
Young & Hot in Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For the youthful and gorgeous in LA to discuss, exchange ideas, and to meet and mingle! Ages 18-35.
Your Will Sacramento High Protocol, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-19
For anyone practicing high protocol or interested in learning about and using protocols in their BDSM play, practice, or relationships. M/s, D/s, 24/7, when you can, public, private.
Zenith SFBay – for Peak Experiences and People in BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-23
For kinky people OVER 35. Primarily in SF Bay Area.
Last updated: September 8, 2015 at 1:01 am
